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Show Table 5.5. continued Category and subcategories Social Support & Respite Using Support Groups Exemplar I saw a flyer in the dr. office. We started going [to brain tumor support group] . . . It cleanses your soul. We had talked about who I had to talk to about it. Does anybody know what I really go through? Nobody understands but another caregiver in that situation. So, knowing that you are not alone helps. [CG2] They can offer support groups, but I never felt like I could go. I couldn't leave him, and if I brought him with me - it would never work out. It might have been extremely well-done - the support groups. But they're assuming that you're capable of getting there. And it doesn't work that way. [CG10] I have gone online and found one [support group]. I've used that ---very definitely . . . The one I've been doing [is] a group that's been going on for a long time that is strictly for brain tumor. There are emails sent and posted there that go out to the whole group. You find a lot of people posting there are going through the same type of thing. It could be the patient or the caregiver talking about the treatment they're having or so. That's been a big help. You get a lot of reassurances from everyone that, yes, you are doing everything you can and that is the best you can do . . . and [chuckling] everyone says to get some help too! [CG8] Feeling Trapped yet finding respite as a state of mind I have to have a space. So some mornings I wake up, and I know I've got a few more minutes to drift off into my twilight zone. And the way I do this, is I unhook my mind, and I go back to the time - I'll pick out a time that was good. And I lock onto that, and maybe I'll drift in and out. I always pick it up where I left it off. [CG12] In a way, my working is therapeutic for me. It gets me off into another situation. So I'm not so focused on what's going on here. It's kind of a therapeutic thing for me.… [CG3] Legend: CG = Caregiver 194 |