Network, August 1987

The Network magazine (1978-1989) published through the Phoenix Center was a women's magazine created by Mary Gaber, Jinnah Kelson, and Lynne Van Dam who saw the need for an intelligent magazine that would address women's issues and appeal to women in Utah, whether they were in the business world or not.

•• \. \ '• \ I • \ • ------· by Linda Sillitoe \. ...). I • \ '\.J • FEATURES Carol Bennion Quist 7 Linda Sillitoe 10 14 Marjorie Hilton 16 Lynne Ann 18 Tempest Nini Rich 22 Karen Shepherd 33 and Lynne Ann Tempest GRANDMAGOESTOGRADSCHOOL Reentry shock does not kill grandmother's school plans. HOME FREE One woman shares her memories of growing up in the land of Liberty. WORKING WITH A WEAK BOSS Take charge of an indecisive boss with strategies that put you in control. SEXUAL POLITICS IN OGDEN Once a male bastion of power, the Ogden Chamber of Commerce is coping with a new power. THE AFTERMATH OF ALCOHOLISM Overshadowed by chaos and family turmoil, children raised by alcoholic parents experience trauma that can last a lifetime. EPIPHANY AT THE NEVADA TEST SITE A lesson in consensus brings nuclear protestors one step closer to peace. WOMEN TO WATCH: Women in the Media network helps you watch the women on the way up. network Network is for women and for the men with whom they live and work. Network's readers are aware of how quickly the world is changing and are committed to economic and social equality. Network's articles cover work, relationships, career development, jobs, power, business, job politics, families, and Utah culture. The voice of a new and emerging Utah, Network is aimed at all who seek to combine personal and professional satisfaction, who want to learn new ways of growing and surviving with grace and humor. • PUBLISHER Karen Shepherd EDITOR Karen Shepherd MANAGING EDITOR Lynne Ann Tempest COLUMNS Jane Brody 12 Melody Johnson 12 13 Elouise Bell 15 Carol A. Wilson 27 GOOD FOOD: Starching your diet Stoke your body's furnace with starch and lose weight without losing your health. MARKET REPORT: A fish tale A_ local fish market brings more to town than just gifts from the sea. HEALTH: How well is your being? Put your health to the test with this quick quiz. ONLY WHEN I LAUGH: Unpacking Interruptus The real unpacking from a journey has little to do with clothes, toiletries, and accumulated souvenirs. FINANCE: Divorce and the new tax law Understanding the new tax law can help you minimize the economic effects of divorce. DEPARTMENTS Karen Shepherd Chris Oldroyd 3 EDITORIAL: Ollie-garchy A small government run by Oliver North and John Poindexter has dictated U.S. foreign policy for several {ateful years. 4 LETTERS 6 NEWS AND NOTES Melody Johnson 8 Lyr.J,neAnn Tempest 34 TYPESETTING Afton Shanks STAFF WRITERS Lynne Ann Tempest DIRECTOR OF ADVERTISING Nancy Mitchell ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES In Salt Lake City: Linda Power Sandra Martinez In Ogden: Lynne Ann Tempest 24 BACK TO CLASS SHOPPER CIRCULATION Anna Suchar, Assistant WOMEN'S INDEX WOMEN'S INDEX AND RESOURCE GUIDE CALENDAR ON THE COVER Home Free Illustration by Catherine Patillo -------------------------------------------IN -PRAISE OF UTAH WOMEN ARTISTS Think Christmas in August and be treated by beauty all year long! network and Quality Press present a 1988 calendar, In Praise of Utah Women Artists. For just $14.95 you can give a gift subscription to a friend and get the calendar as a gift for yourself. 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Network is a publication of Webster Publishing, a private Utah corporation owned by Genevieve Atwood, Kay Berger, *Lee Brennan, Cris Coffey, Terrell Dougan , *JoAnn Freed, Mary Gaber, Anita Gander, *Jinnah Kelson , *Ester Landa, Tina Martin.Judy Reagan , *Helen Robinson, *Eunice Shatz. *Karen Shepherd, Vincent Shepherd, *Barbara Tanner, :--rorman Tanner. Lynne Van Dam, *Maggie Wilde. All names· marked* and Elaine Weis serve on the Board of Directors. Network is a member of the National Association of Women's Regional Publications (NAWRP). by Karen Shepherd OLLIE-GARCHY The public trust has been broken of the diversion of funds to the Contras. again. The American people have now Poindexter, like North was willing to been deceived so thoroughly and by so be a scapegoat. He didn t tell the truth many that they have lost the to Reagan, he says, becaUSe it was opportunity to know the truth. Now the important to protect him from being only choice left to them is to involved in the Big Lie in case it ever distinguish between the lies, according came out. He even created language for to the motives of those who told them, this strategy. He was providing, he says and to pick those lies which seem the a situation of "plausible deniability" for • least vicious, the least connected to the president. private gain. The problem with all this lying is According to the polls, most that it was done outside the Americans have made their choice, congressionally established rules for selecting what Mark Hosenball in ''The lying (the laws governjng covert action Culture of Lying," (The New Republic, taken in behalf of the American July 20, 1987), called the Patriotic Lie. Government), and it is, therefore, The best of all the liars who has dangerous to our democracy. paraded before us in the last nine Unrestrained lying, lying in which the months is Lt. Col. Oliver North, an liars are not accountable to anyone attractive man, who can look straight could be fatal to the democracy into the camera and get misty-eyed as because, by nature, these lies spred he tells of past lies. He is the perfect insidiously- by example (those lied to person to tell a Patriotic Lie because he begin to tell lies to preserve control) comes honestly by the zeal and and by necessity (lies told to cover lies narrow-minded thinking that such lies previously told). Unrestrained lying require. He is perfectly believable places power in the hands of a very when he says, "lying does not come few, leading to a pervasive arrogance easily to me.", believable even when, as that nurtures the need for further lies. he speaks those words, he is Unrestrained lying ultimately confessing to hundreds, perhaps undermines that which a democracy thousands, of interconnecting, holds most sacred - the individual complicated lies which stretch over the right of people to hear open debate and whole course of his assignment to the make educated choices about those National Security Council. North is a who operate their government. man who has lied so much over the Unrestrained lying creates oligarchy, a past years that his ethical gyroscope is government in which a small group permanently unbalanced. He has exercises control for corrupt and convinced himself that he is telling the selfish purposes. truth. His certainty has been and It was unlawful for North and continues to be convincing and Poindexter to circumvent the Bolland comforting to a public shaken by yet Amendment and devise U.S. foreign another government deception. policy outside the arena of public Admiral Poindexter has been less debate. The Reagan Administration fortunate. He's not very attractive had clearly pledged not to do business with Iran. Congress had debated and cold, smooth, expressionless. His lies appear less earnest, more calculated. established the amount of military aid Yet, according to his testimony, he lied it was willing to spend on Contra aid. for the same reasons North did. He, lil<e The American people overwhelmingly North believed that he was doing what opposed any escalation of that his superior wanted. He says he is struggle. The commitment of certain that, had he asked President Poindexter and North to this cause Reagan, Reagan would have approved may be seen as pure, but their actions 1 in support of their commitment were outside the 13:w. Many, including our own Senator Hatch, who appears to embrace all the lies, are arguing that criminal prosecution in this instance is really political persecution. These men are. obeying the polls instead of their consciences. I believe that we must send a clear message to the citizens of the United States that oligarchies will not be tolerated for any reason. The subtle facts of this particular case feel ominous to me. To begin with, a great many of the people involved were from the military. Robert McFarlane, John Poindexter, Oliver North, Richard Secord, Robert Dutton, and John Singlaub were all deeply involved in the Big Lie, and they were all career military men. One third of the National Security Council staff came from the Pentagon, 20 percent of the staff were from the Navy. According to Fareed Zakaria, writing for The New Republic, no civilian played a major roll in the planning and execution of the Iran/Contra policy. If President Reagan knew what was going on, his willingness to let military ersonnel make foreign policy is unnerving. If lies, like a magician's magic, suspend disbelief. The fact remains that they were still lies, and the polls show a majority think he too was part of the Big Lie. Oliver North is now the public favorite. People have stopped believing Reagan, and, in desperation, have started believing North. The irony is that the great communicator was bested by someone who could fake sincerity even better than he can. The problem is that while people admire North, they still think that what he did was wrong. If there are no consequences for this massive public deception, government credibility will fall even lower. Last fall just before the elections, I was walking a Salt Lake City neighborhood in behalf of my husband who was running for the Utah House of Representatives. Most people were welcoming and cheerfully interested in the election. Too many, ho~ivever, almost defiantly announced, "I don't vote!" The answer always startled me, and I always asked why. The reasons ~ven were generally similar. "They're citizens would say. ''You can't be1ieve a Reagan did not know the truth, as he word they say, and I refuse to be claims, it is terrifying. manipulated." Then there is the part that the mass If the proceedings exonerate either· media has played, especially Oliver North or John Poindexter, the throughout the hearings. It began, as it message to the American public is that will end, with the great communicator. powerful individuals in the President Reagan has proved that he government will be allowed to lie in can fake sincerity with a skill beyond order to accomplish their ends. More our ability to disbelieve. He was and more people will come to believe believable when he said, "We did not- that no elected official or government repeat, did not - trade weapons or employee has credibility. That message anything else for hostages, nor will will escalate the already spiralling we." And when he said, "We ... have sense of hopelessness and had nothing to do with other countries powerlessness too many Americans or their shipment of arms or doing feel. These feelings are the true threat to a democracy because people who what they're doing." He was equally have them become politically passive believable when he reversed and turn responsibility for the everything and said, "Yes, the democracy over to the few powerful secretaries of state and defense supported the Iranian arms sale. We persons who are no longer restrained have all been working together." His by the ------------------------~----------------------------------Anetwork's work is never done. First you read it, then your partner reads it, then your children play with it, and finally it gets to the dog. Quite a bargain for $12! And you get a present to boot. Utah Women and the Law. A handbook that lets you know where you stand with Utah's laws. SUBSCRIBE NOW (and let network go to work for you!) NAME _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ ___;__ __ ADDRESS - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - CITY/ST/ZIP _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ __ PHONE----------------~------PAYMENT ENCLOSED BILL ME network/349 SOUTH 600 EAST /SALT lAKE CITY /UT 84102/532-6095 AUGUST 1987/NETWORK 3 LET'S BE MORE SUPPORTIVE Introducing Personal Shopper Leslie Rudd, your solution to gift and wardrobe selection Call on Leslie for professional advice with fashion and accessory selection for both men and women. She's here to help with the perfect fashion gifts as well as to update, color coordinate and accessorize the look that's just right for you. 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Some of their comments criticized working mothers who just don't seem to be giving their all, who are preoccupied with their home life during their work life, use up their sick leave to aid their little ones, have underutilized husbands, and on and on. C'mon ladies, let's be a bit more supportive of our fell ow co-workers ( male or female) who tackle the tough job of child rearing. Personally, I am thrilled that there are women and men in this world that go the extra mile it obviously takes to rear children. Instead of discrimination, an even greater dose of compassion is needed here. Women have enough hurdles to cross without our own gender adding extra obstacle courses. Let's begin to talk more with each other. Let's find out what our co-workers' needs are, and let's tell them about ours. Isn't there enough room in this ol' world for all kinds of lifestyles, incluping those struggling to raise our future leaders? Kari Schaerrer Sandy, Utah ALSO DISMAYEO Dear editor, I read the interviews with women who decided not to have children ("To Have or to Have Not" July 1987) with some dismay. The resentment many expressed toward female co-workers and employees with sick children was ominous. My experience has been that working women do a better job, even as they struggle with those kinds of problems, than the men who are relieved of the burden by their wives. You can be dedicated to your career and still have days when work just is not the top priority. I wish those interviewed had extended their reviews of job performance to their male co-workers, who, I assume, have something to do with a woman's need to take maternity leave. Alyson Heyrend Salt Lake City THE DEATH OF FEAR Dear editor, Ironically enough, I read your July editorial "Rule of Thumb" on the day they buried a sister of mine. 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Well, now he has. They'll bury her this afternoon. He'll say he was insane or drunk or whatever comes to mind, and driven to a crime of passion by this wicked, disobedient woman. And he'll find sympathy among his own - the men who will be the attorneys, judges, and jurors. Many will say - have already said - she should have stayed at home and minded. Bad things don't happen to good little women. I'm proud of this sister of mine. She was a slow starter, but finished with the best of them. She had obtained a college degree, the love and respect of her children as well as the children of the community, and the admiration of many women with similar problems. I'm so sorry she is dead. I'm glad that she is finally free from the fear which often made her life a nightmare. I hope that we women who are still in the trenches fighting will soon win this War of Independence. I hope that this, and the other many casualties of the war will be remembered. Jan Snell Salt Lake City NO MORE "HELP" Dear editor, I read the letters to the editor in the May edition of network and the editorial by Karen Shepherd. I do believe it is time for us (women) to stop saying that the working mothers are out there on the job doing work to "supplement" their spouses' income. To me it's belittling to a husband to say his wife works to "help support his income." The people are working for a common cause - to have and rear a family - young men today should be complimented on the help they are in the home. Again they are not helping out to give the "little woman" a hand with the housework. The home and the children belong to both of them, and it is as much to his advantage to keep a good home as it is for his wife. They both share an equal effort. It's time we got rid of the old myths that it's men's work away from home and women's work in the home. I believe we could give it a new name such as the merging of families towards a common goal of living and surviving and obtaining happiness together in a common effort. Perhaps if we did this it would cut down a lot of friction caused by separation of home and work Rae Levesque Salt Lake City EXPRESSED APPRECIATION Dear editor, I write to express my appreciation for your article "Scout Freddie." You are to be complimented for recognizing the worth of a magnificent woman who has dedicated her life to the development of young girls and women through her efforts in the Girl Scout movement. The programs and activities of the Girl Scouts have been in the forefront of our changing times - and so has Freddie. Gwen S. Williams Ogden, Utah Why Go Out Of Your Way To Find A Neighborhood Doctor? With Physician Finder, you can now get information on hundreds of doctors from LOS, Cottonwood, Alta View and Wasatch Canyons hospitals with one quick phone call. 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Gary says he sees parallels between automobile graveyards and dinosaur anatomy reduced resources require engineers to design a more efficient car just as a changing environment once caused dinosaurs to change or disappear forever. This unique dinosaur display will be in Salt Lake City through September 20 at the University of Utah Museum of Natural History. You expected somewhere else? Hours are Monday through Saturday, 9:30 to 5:30 p.m., Sunday, 12 to 5. Admission is $2 for adults and $1 for children and students. SHORT OF BREATH? Have you wondered lately what shape your lungs are in? The Lung Health Study at the University of Utah Medical Center is providing free lung function tests for cigarette smokers between the ages of 35 and 59. The 15-minute test is completely painless and results are available immediately. Participants may be invited to join a national lung research program and offered a free 10-week stop-smoking program. For some, this test may be more than a lark. Dr. Richard E. Kanner of the University Lung Health Study says, "Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease kills 60,000 people a year. Ten million people have the disease." For more information, or to arrange an appointment for a free lung function test, call the Lung Health Study at 581-LUNG. - IS IT TIME YET? They're slow to know it, but companies lose millions of dollars in productivity, turnover, absenteeism, and quality of work because of the fatigue and stress that parents experience while they try to be parents and employees at the same time. The idea that employee sponsored child care would solve many of these problems is being discussed again in a conference planned by the Utah Child Care Advisory Council, "The World of Possibilities: Work/ Family Solutions," on August 7, 1987. Anchor of KTVX, Karen Carns ( who may have a child care problem of her own by then) will keynote. A mere $30 will give you the conference, materials, treats, and a buffet lunch. Valiant sponsors include the Utah Division of Family Services and Child Care and Family Advisory Council, American Express, University ofl:tah, U.S. West Women of Mountain Bell, Children's Senice Society of Utah. The conference is endorsed by the Utah Job Training Coordinating Council. SEND IN THE DOLLARS State Representative Janet Rose believes women who support and vote for Republican candidates are like chickens voting for Colonel Sanders. And with women numbering only seven of 75 in the House and one of29 in the Senate, the odds are decidedly skewed. Rose is tired of being the lonely underdog. She wants company. To help other women get elected, she formed "Jenny's VIEW," a fund-raising group aimed at helping women get elected to state and local office. She says the goal of Jenny's VIEW is to give women candidates enough financial and campaign organizational support to elect six additional female legislators in 1988. If six Democrats were elected to the house, this beleaguered party could control the House of Representatives. Members of Jenny's VIEW are asked to donate $50 this year, a non-election year, and to pledge $100 during the 1988 campaign season. The goal is to raise $45,000 by 1988, a figure which compares well with the campaign war chests of the state Republican and Democratic . Parties and the Utah Education Association. The fund will finally give women a chance to overcome the most common objection to their candidacy - that they can't win because it is difficult for them to raise money. Rose says "It's time that like minded men and women build a network of support for women candidates. It's time we do something for ourselves." Send in the$. network agrees. CHEW ON While some kids chew gum, at least one is determined to make some changes. Angela Heninger, no slouch when it comes to solving big problems is part of a group of World Runners on a 20-day trip in Russia to promote peace and end hunger. At each stop in Russia they will run a !Ok race and speak to the people about promoting peace and human well being. Anyone who wants to know more about World Runners should write Heninger at 3495 South Main, Salt Lake City, Utah 84115.1 ENGINEER The Ogden Truck Plant of Volvo White Truck Corp. is currently seeking qualified candidates for the following positions: INDUSTRIAL ENGINEER Requires a 4 year college degree in Industrial Engineering or related field and 4 years related experience. Will participate in a full range of engineering assignments including station layout, tool design, line balancing, methods studies and labor analysis. ASSOCIATED INDUSTRIAL ENGINEER Requires a 4 year college degree in Industrial Engineering or related field and 1 year of related experience; or high school graduate/GED equivalence and 8 years directly related experience. Will perform routine industrial engineering work on specific portions of broader tasks assigned to an experienced industrial engineer using prescribed standard techniques and procedures. Volvo White offers top quality benefits, competitive compensation and an excellent opportunity to become part of a dynamic team. For consideration, please forward a resume to Human Resources Dept., Volvo White Truck Corp., 1000 West 33rd Street, Ogden, Utah 84404. (No telephone inquiries please) --===--~,'~.~ VOLVO WHITE Volvo White Truck Corporation An Equal Opportunity Employer MI F / H /V 6 NETWORK/ AUGUST 1987 Editor's note: This is the first of a short series of articles. It was spring, spring 1985, when I read in the newspaper the announcement of a new University of Utah master's program which made my heart go pitty-pat. And in the crux of my mid-life crisis, I immediately began getting off on the wrong foot in academe. I phoned for details and, as directed, wrote a letter to the director. It must have been too brash and breezy. Two weeks passed without reply, and so I phoned the director directly. "He's sick," was the answer. "Oh, I know. I read his last book, too!" There was, as we read in certain genres, a pregnant pause. Or perhaps in this case, it was seminal. "Dr. Blank has been Very ill for several weeks." I should have been daunted right then. Instead I determined to go pick up the application forms. My first visit in 30 years to that campus was on the arm of our son, the computer science savant. We parked in Merrill Engineering Building's northern exposure. "Do you see that?" I grasped a light standard for support. "The filthiest, shortest cutoffs in existence, an undershirt, a tweed jacket which looks as if it had been hit and run, no socks, mountain-climbing boots - " "Steady, steady," our son hissed. "He's my professor." We continued along the byways of a new world, I gasping at intervals, the modern campus." "What happened to all the streets that "What now?" used to be around here? What's that "Well, I don't have a sweat suit or new building?" "I told you to dig out a campus map shorts and a tank top. I don't have thongs, and my sneakers are from my glove compartment! Oh, Motherrrr!" he groaned as I picked up a conservative and well mended. I don't lunch bag in our path and tossed it into know how to carry a back pack on one shoulder, and I don't have a gym bag. a garbage can. "They pay the grounds -My hair isn't ballooned, stringy, or crew to do stuff like that." obstructing my vision. And even if I "Are you the former high school senior who wrote the paper titled, 'Stop wore a three-piece suit and carried a rotated 90 degrees. And I'll tell you a tale, buster. After the students had called it 'OSH' for awhile, the administration decided that that was disrespectful to Orson's memory. So they began to speak of 'Spencer Hall' and to list it in catalogs as 'SH.' Whereupon the students promptly began calling it, 'SHHH.' The administration gave up.'' "Yeah? Yeah? Students were well, uh, just like students? Even in your day?" He looked me full in the face, almost an embryo of approval showing on his own. Then, "Did you see that? Behind you!" he whimpered under his breath. "Oh, I just love spring when the coeds get nearly naked. That's why I always take some class or other down here on lower campus spring quarter." "Steady, steady," I said. "She's probably going to be one of my professors." "Uh, look, Mom, you've got your bearings now, right?" He'd begun to vibrate. "So long, then.You've got to go it alone sooner or later anyway." He shrugged and waved, then turned back. "Oh, and keep an eye out for skateboaders." I was on my own. With only a bus schedule to help me home. I Grandma Goes To by Carol Bennion Quist Reentry shock does not kill grandm~ther' s . . , school plans. Wasting Our Environment?' " I asked, remembering the last-minute urgency when he begged me to type it years before. He subsided into grumblings as the sidewalks filled with students, dismissed from class, pouring from every aperture. "Oh, oh," I said as I looked them over. "I can see I'm not going to fit in on briefcase, I'd have to grow a beard." "Go for it, Mom!" he whistled and then came to a full stop. "Well?" I glared. "What's this place?" "You don't even recognize Orson Spencer Hall? I thought it was built back when you were here?" "But on the other side of the Union Building," I retorted, "which has been to be continued next month Carol Bennion Quist is a writer wfw just won afirst place awardfor ''Light Verse"frmn the Utah Arts Council. Help dan,-the lloodol fund drives. The birthrate is up, taxes are up, the cost of living is up, even the fees which purchase your favorite programs on KUED will increase by S40,000 during fiscal year 1987-88. Some things are pretty hard to control, but even the Great Salt Lake is no longer on the rise and KUED is diligently working to stem the tide of on-air fundraising this August. I With your help KUED can spare you the flood of ringing telephones, clanging bells and seemingly endless guilt-inducing pledge breaks this August. Don't let pledging rain on a terrific parade of shows lined up for you and your family. To keep August Pledge-Free, please rush your check to: A Pledge-Free Summer P.O. Box 27283 ® Salt Lake City, Utah 84125 and together we can sink another pledge drive below "see" level! KUED,, AUGUST 1987/NETWORK 7 by Melody Johnson Around Town The verdict of the Alta Club's special meeting on a vote to accept or reject women as members by changing their Articles of Incorporation was to accept, on June 23, 1987. Members are now reviewing the applications of the first women invited to become members. Many highly qualified candidates are standing in line. Brian Barnard, the attorney who filed the suit last year against the Alta Club recently sent a letter to the state office of the Elks Lodge, threatening to file a class action suit against all the Elks Lodges in the state if that organization didn't start opening up memberships to women. Spencer Whitted, a Lake Tahoe, Nevada, resident who is a member of an exclusive fraternal organization for professional men tells me that his club has decided to admit women. At a crucial meeting of his board of directors, reports Whitted, the. president of this club, after accepting the motion that women be admitted, asked the recording secretary to stop taking minutes. Then, recalls Whitted, the president said, "and if any of you bring women into the membership, you'll lose your membership." We hope Whitted, who himself feels it would be OK to let in a couple of token women," is behind Utah in openness to this new development. The process is working for clubs, like the Exchange Club, that has already admitted women. The following includes some usefull dos and don'ts found in a Salt Lake Exchange Club Newsletter. NO. "The average man on the street speaks his mind on the issues." YES. "The average voter speaks out on • political issues." NO. "A worker with minor children should make sure his will is up to date." YES. "A worker with minor children· should make sure his or her will is up to date." NO. "Everyone needs his own space." YES. "All people need their own space." This is progress! A June Gallop Poll shows that a two-thirds majority of Americans think private clubs should not have the right to exclude prospective members on the basis of their sex. The poll was taken shortly after the recent U.S. Supreme Court ruling requiring California Rotary Clubs to accept women members. Another recent Gallup survey found that eight in 10, opposed private clubs excluding would-be members on the basis of race, religion or nationality. More baby-boomer information. An interpretation of the entire population, known as VALS (for Values and Lifestyles), is drawing increasing attention, according to a current article in The New Republic. Developed in 1983, and used heavily by ad agencies, the system breaks the populace into two "need-driven" types, three "outer-directed" types (the middle-class), three "inner-directed" types (yuppies, OINKS, etc.) and a tiny "integrated" group. Accurate or not, VALS contrasts with the introvert-extrovert dichotomy of the '50s, and reflects the growing sense of a fractured society - possibly a society with nine lives. Back on the home front, and in the spirit of advertising - a five member student team from Brigham Young University was named the outstanding college advertising team in the United States on June 6, at the American Advertising Federation's annual meeting.in Orlando, Florida. :I'he team, spo~ored by the Utah Advertising Federation under the direction 'of network's Nancy Mitchell, in charge of the UAF student services, aced 120 universities involved in the national advertising competition. This year's case study required students to create a marketing plan for the Chevrolet Cavalier. Taking top honors were students Arni Parker, Bob Hess, Shellie Frey, Kristena Allen, and Mike Brown. The faculty advisor for the BYU team was Dr. Dennis G. Martin and his assistant Peggy Fugal. Last year the Local UAF provided scholarship funds of more than $4,500 to two Utah universities. The judges, made up of Chevrolet advertising professional and executives, were unanimous about BYU's win. The company bought the rights to BYU's marketing plan and invited the BYU team to Detroit to present it to top Chevrolet executives! Utah's Professional and Business Networks for Women AWSCPA: The American Women's Society of Certified Public Accountants is a national organization with the primary goal of assisting women CPAs to advance in their careers. New members are welcome. Contact Lynne Koga, 533-5343, or Mary Kay Griffin, 364-9300, for more information. MCWC: The Murray Chamber Women's Council is designed to serve professional business women. MCWC provides an opportunity for training, education, and networking for women in the Murray area. Contact Nancy Bell, 262-1935, or Angie Gregg, 263-2632, for more information. SWIB: The Sandy Women in Business~ a division of the Sandy Chamber of Commerce, is a professional organization dedicated to furthering the growth and development of business women, while furthering the efforts of the Sandy Chamber. For more information contact, Cynthia Schoewe, 359-7100 or 566-1561. UAWBO: The Utah Association of Women Business Owners is made up of womenwho own their own businesses or who work in an independent capacity with a business. Call 534-3440 for more information. UM/SN: The Utah Math/Science Network is an organization for women in math and science fields dedicated to increasing the career opportunities for women in these fields and encouraging young women to enter math and science related careers. The Network sponsors an Expanding Your Horizons conference each year for junior high and high school girls. For more information contact Kay Brown, 943-2154. WIBCO: The Women in Business Committee of the Salt Lake Area Chamber of Commerce is a professional organization devoted to helping women succeed while promoting the goals of the chamber. Contact LaRae Clark, 364-3631, for more information. WICI: Women in Communications is a nationwide professional organization that has been uniting women in the communication field for over 75 years. Contact Nancy Mitchell, 532-6095, for more information. WIM: Women in Management is a forum through which dues-paying members of the Ogden Area Chamber of Commerce can make contacts, get support, and become integrated into the activities and leadership of the Ogden Chamber. For more information call Pat Mencimer at 621-8300. WIMCO: The Women in Management Council, a division of the Provo/Orem Recent and Upcoming Women's Network Events: AWSCPA: The July AWSCPA meeting was a half-day golf outing followed by a social. For information about the next meeting call Lynne Koga, 533-5343, or Mary Kay Griffin, 364-9300. MCWC: The last MCWC meeting was a social and fashion show presented by Nordstrom. For information about the August MCWC meeting call the Chamber office, 263-2632. MCWC has scheduled a retreat in the Cliff Lodge at Snowbird for September 25 and 26. For more information regarding the retreat, call the Chamber office, or Judy Brown, 481-5309. SWIB: The July SWIB meeting was a planning meeting for the Salmon Bake Fund Raiser to be held in conjunction with the Sandy Pride activities scheduled on August 15 at Alta High School. The next meeting will be held on August 12 at noon at the Willowcreek Plaza, on the corner of Highland Drive and Creek Road. Cost is $2. Lunch will be provided courtesy of Milford Managers. No speaker is scheduled. For more information call Betty Giffin, 942-2582. 8 NETWORK/ AUGUST 1987 Chamber of Commerce, encourages personal and professional growth through utilizing human resources, accepting the challenge of management, networking, and education, and increased participation and recognition in the Utah County business community. For membership information contact Len Rawlings, 225-1010. WIN: The Women's Information Network is a women's support and networking group dedicated to promoting women in business, to helping women who are in transition or looking for a job, and openings for other women. There are four WIN groups meeting at different times to accommodate all schedules. WLU: Women Lawyers of Utah, Inc., provides a forum for women lawyers to share their professional concerns. Contact Jane Reister Conard, 533-8282, for more information. WIM: The July WIM meeting WIBCO: The July WIBCO meeting UAWBO: TheJulyUAWBO featured Phyllis Shaw and Murray featured Des Barker, of Barker and meeting featured John Hansen, of Moler, who spoke on "Historical Jorgenson, who spoke on "Going the Valley Bank, who spoke on creative The next WIM meeting will be Ogden." WIBCO August The Mile." Extra be will meeting August The financing. held on August 25 at the Ogden Hilton meeting will be the Athena held on August 3 at the home of Dr. Hotel at 11 :45 a.m. Cost is $8. A surprise Businesswoman of the Year Award Janet Harnsberger, 5770 South 250 speaker will be featured. Call Pat luncheon to be held at Little America East, Murray, at 6:30 p.m. The social Mencimer, 621-8300 to reserve. Hotel at 11:45 on August 18. and new member night will feature a WIMCO: The July WIMCO a without members and Non-members raffle to defray the cost of the meeting was a discussion of issues reservation will now pay_$15 for a September dinner. Call 534-3440 to affecting the business professional. WIBCO luncheon. Cost for members reserve. Prospective members are August meeting will be held on The Call $12. remain will reservations with especially encouraged to attend. August 20 at the Provo Excelsior Hotel. LaRae Clark, 364-3631 ext. 3025, to UAWBO members are voting on the Cost is $6.50 for members, $8.50 for 1987 Utah Women Business Owner of reserve. non-members. For more information TheJulyWICimeetingwasa WICI: the Year award. Nominees are Jackie social especially for new members and call Ann Harris, 374-5449. Nichols of Quality Press, Laura WIN I: There will be no WIN I guests. The August WICI meeting will Jenkinson of Laura's Interiors, throughout the summer. The meetings University the at 25 August on held be Lorraine Miller of Cactus and of Utah Health Sciences Center at 11:30 next WIN I meeting will be held in Tropicals, and Nancy Bell of Nancy's a.m. Meet in the lobby ofthe center, 50 September. Enjoy the rest of the Dry Cleaners. The award will be presented at the annual awards dinner North Medical Drive. "Public Relations summer! WIN II: The July WIN II meeting Problems Associated with Bio-medical on Monday, September 14, at the featured Barbara Timper who spoke on Research" will be the topic of Cottonwood Club. Job Corp programs. There will not be discussion. A tour of some research UM/SN: The August UM/SN an August meeting. Enjoy! meeting will be held on August 5 at 6:30 labs, including magnetic resonance WIN III: Call Maxine Harsch, imaging, laser surgery, and new born p.m. at 354 South 1100 East. The for information about the 262-6819, be also will unit care intensive meeting/ social will feature the next WIN III meeting. featured. Lunch will be provided. Call National Math Coordinators. There is WLU: There will be no WLU Jo Divver, 364-1935, or Susan Sample, no cost. Guests are welcome. Call throughout the summer. meetings reserve. to or costs for 581-5717, Carolyn Tucker, 521-9778, 488-4174, to reserve. T R L D G y Silver and pure wool are intertwined and the result is a sumptuous tweed mosaic by Trilogy, $215 in sizes 3 to 13 from Loft Coats excluding Layton Hills and Cache Valley ZCMI stores. AUGUST 1987/NETWORK 9 Le mid to late fifties, it was quite apparent that Salt Lake City lay at the world's center, ringed by the Wasatch Mountains which curved like protective hands. My house lay at the city's center, a fact that was eventually noticed by urban planners who named the Liberty Park area where I grew up, Central City. My family moved to Herbert Avenue between Third and Fourth East when I was four and so it was the first neighborhood I knew well. We lived in a red brick cottage. That pleased me, since it was my favorite color and easy to draw with a square topped by a triangle. Then came two large windows with scallops for Priscilla curtains, a front door, and my mother's red and yellow tulips lined up out front. Watching my parents' home movies, I see why I had such a storybook mentality. In those fading films I see the cottage, the curtains, the happy children demonstrating a new bike, backward somersaults, the baby learning to walk. Within the circle the mountains made while propping up the sky, lay the city blocks like squares. I knew my square, all four sides of it, and the alley that ran like a T through the center. My parents must have warned us about the alley, for it always had an aura of mystery, danger. Did they caution us because cars sometimes sped through it? Or because undesirable strangers lurked in unwatched byways? In any case, my brother and I loved it. In a tense game of hide-and-go-seek or cops and robbers, we could dart down the stem of the T that practically began behind our yard, emerge at one end, crouch, and when our pursuer bumbled to the opposite end, sprint desperately back down the stem to our big poplar tree and yell, "Home free!" My father believed an underground well fed the tree. Even now, I think it must have been enormous. We could never reach around it, even two of us, and the branches were far too high to climb. One, however, offered a perfect arm to string ropes for a swing. On that swing I learned to pump, chanting Robert Louis Stevenson and creating my own breeze. I used to wind the rope all the way to the top until my feet barely touched tree or ground, and then shove off, spinning crazily,jerkily, wildly, finally to a stop, stunned as the world spun around me. When I graciously consented to wind up my younger brother in the swing, he managed to crash into the dust, bloodying his lip. He must have been about three then. A year or two later, he and the tree made family history when he reasoned that if he ran fast enough, he could run right up the side of the tree. He gave himself a good start and his theory was-s ound: he just couldn't pick up enough speed. As a child, I told a lot ofjokes about living in a land of Liberty. The block kitty-corner to the West held Liberty School, long and low, and improved with a new auditorium and classroom sinks when I was in second grade. The 10 NETWORK/AUGUST 1987 strange block with unknown dogs and kids. The back of the store on the corner was visible all the way. A bell rang when we walked in, alerting the owner reading his huge book of Braille behind the counter. If this was an official errand, we chose the can of Campbell's soup and loaf of bread. If it was allowance day, we went straight for the typing paper, 16 sheets for 10 cents. That meant 32 sides for drawings or stories, but the first abundance disappeared shockingly soon. Occasionally we had to replace our crayons. We'd place our goods on the counter and watch as his hands swept over them, then felt carefully all over the counter. Taking half a step back as his hands approached, we might mutter, "Just that." But he'd always check, his blank face behind the black glasses sweeping the open air for hints of fraud. "Thank you," we'd squeak, as he rang it up on the cash register. Then we'd grab the paper sack and hurry out the door into the sun. owntown was not far away if we went in our black Hudson. We'd park on the wide streets and go to a department store. Or if it were Liberty Stake Conference Sunday, we'd park by Temple Square. I was charmed by the fairytale spires of the Temple and the turtlebacked Tabernacle, but we headed for the Assembly Hall. I'd run to hop up onto the rim of the Seagull Monument and walk around the fountain. Pennies winked at me from the turquoise water, and the opening song burst through the Asssembly Hall doors as my mother urged me to come. Inside, I consistently confused a counselor in the stake presidency with behind them. My mother would block kitty-corner to the east of our David 0. McKay, that big, President we why house contained Liberty Ward with its shudder when we asked man who, on the pages of white-haired the in day every swimming go couldn't Josephdepicting window stained-glass forever stepped News, Deseret the park like they did. "I watch them go Smith in the Sacred Grove. If we Hawaiian airplanes, propellered from come over," she'd tell us, "and see them walked another block east from the neck. his around leis a like seems just It lighter. shade a back house, our of east ward, or two blocks When my sister and I were 10 and 9, public bath." Eventually we did go, there was the park, a green square at mother took us to General my least four times larger than the others. excitedly, and found that my mother We had to go early to get Conference. to room had one No right. partly was so not were park The swings in the seats, and waited interminably in the swim, but no bath was ever so nice as ours. They pinched our legs, balcony for President McKay to walk and were hung on chains, which didn't deafening. in. Finally the moment came Third across school to walked I of more were there wind well, but • East with my first grade sister the year I everyone rose - and I saw backs and them.Just past the merry-go-round, heard a hush and murmur. "Sssh!" my started kindergarten. Walking home, airplanes, and Ferris wheel, our next mother whispered to my frantic the by overtaken be sometimes we'd candy. cotton sold door neighbor question, and "There!", but I was never junior high kids in their crewcuts and Later my family would move to sure I saw the right white dot in the saddle oxfords. The girls' skirts stood Fifth East, across the street from the crowd. 50-yard by supp~rted straight, out we tennis courts. As adolescents, Usually, Sunday meant a hurried awoke summer mornings to the whop sweep petticoats that I extravagantly walk to our ward, despite the clock my of rackets hitting balls, or worse, to the admired as the bunches of girls mother habitually set five minutes fast. sauntered along holding books, their fearful female screech of an aviary resident calling "Help! Help!" From our arms folded across their belted waists. The walks home were more leisurely, and sometimes the family walked . bricked front porch, in the sixties, we we girls swishing our dotted together, to watched beer parties threaten swiss or taffeta dress, and admiring our become riots, and the police arrive shiny patent leather pumps clicking _ y kindergarten year I qualified to with their dogs. Every July we had a along the sidewalk. Television, with the store comer Haddock's to alone walk the and front row seat for the fireworks "Mickey Mouse Club" and "Father across Fourth East. Alone or with a parade. But that came lateF. Knows Best", came later for us, but As children on Herbert Avenue, we sibling, that was something of an weren't allowed to play in the street or adventure. The walk to our comer was very young I had a sense of rightness about our lifestyle. Looking back, that walk to the park alone. Other children nothing, but then there was the busy street to cross, first peering around the seems more than a child's perception. walked right down the middle of the If the seeds of civil and equal rights, the fenders of parked cars, then a whole, street, dangling their faded swimsuits Chrysalis Body Development 401 East 900 South, ~LC Personalized Instruction Congenial Atmosphere Co-Ed • All Ages • All Levels VietNam war, the Watergate scandal, and the space race were genninating somewhere beyond our mountains, Danny Thomas, Donna Reed, and Betty Crocker were as innocent as I. We knew there was bad in the world, but we expected it to be properly contained or punished. Some days my father would come home from work for lunch. His patrol car would pull up, his badge, handcuffs, and , service pistol gleamed as he strode up the little hill to our house. His dark blue hat landed on the dining room table. Later he worked vice - an assignment we children could never get a handle on - and wore an overcoat and hat instead of his blue and gray uniform, but his picture was often in the newspaper, so that made up for the ordinary clothes. He had wonderful, strange stories of his work. Once he brought home a little boy who was lost. We wanted to keep him. We knew mainly from overheard conversations and oblique warnings some of the dark side of Salt Lake City. The red brick apartment building we passed on our way to the store was a crime scene. A little boy had been . kidnapped from one apartment. I remember the pressure on the police department to find him that summer, but I don't remember whether he was found alive. I remember the handicapped young woman who attended our ward when she wasn't at school in American Fork. She disappeared one day, and later my dad and other officers recovered her body. defended our•innocence. No matter capture the Sunday funnies, how deep my father got into a story encountered the stranger in the from work, he could never say "rape" kitchen, smoking and tapping ashes or "molestation." Often we picked up into the sink. more tension than information. I was never sure why she roused I think it must have been a me, except that, naturally, she was concession to the imaginative children scared. She talked me into creeping through our bedroom, the playroom, of a vital but soft-hearted cop that led my parents to such lengths to calm our the utility room (all partitioned from a unconscious fears. My children seldom sleeping porch), to peek through the hear strange noises - and if they do, I kitchen door. There he was, gazing dumbly at me - and blocking the path investigate cautiously. I live in a to my parents' bedroom. gunless house, and if seriously I raced back to bed. It seemed concerned, I'd call the sheriff. My sister and I heard strange noises prudent to go back to sleep, or outside the house frequently, and even fatalistically - pretend sleep. (I'd already been murdered in bed in my inside the house when we were left dreams hundreds of times anyway.) alone. We knew exactly what to do in But my sister, being the oldest, felt case of fire or rattlesnake, but those responsible. She enlisted my lungs, footsteps, whispers, creaks, and , snickers were impossible to confront. I and, somewhat against my better don't know how many times my dad judgment, we yelled to my mother, got out of bed, pulled his trousers over "There's a stranger in the house." his temple garments, strapped on his gun belt, and went outside into that rustling blackness. We'd hear his heavy footsteps tramping around the house, artunarely, my mom had spent sometimes his deep voice joking with a much of the night up with my brother neighbor, and we'd relax. Obviously and was intent on sleeping in. She'd our tormentors had vanished just in heard the front door open, but assumed time. my father had forgotten something and .Ironically, perhaps, the only time a had come back for it. She ignored our stranger did invade our cottage, my ruckus as long as she could, then father allowed him in and my mother sleepily answered, "Yes, dears, go back caught him. He was only an inebriated to sleep." party-goer who had lost his bearings This was somewhat disillusioning, and wandered into our house shortly and after a conference, we continued after my dad went on shift, leaving the yelling. But it was the stranger who front door unlocked since it was light resolved the situation by trying out his outside. My sister, rising early to key on the standard lock below the · doorknob of my mother's bedroom. She opened the door and told him to get out, then quickly loaded my dad's /Jerally crime-busting was more .22 rifle. She held the unhappy man at than major. We were on our way bay on the porch while she calledto some sort of outing when my dad who else? spotted boys robbing a milk truck. He Vindicated and excited, we peeked caught one and stuck him in the back around my mother's robe as my dad seat (with us!) to drive him home. and his partner arrived in a radio Another time we picnicked at Liberty equipped car. Dad pulled a whiskey Park, and it turned out to be a police bottle from the stranger's rear pocket, raid. I wouldn't have minded the long, handcuffed him, and laughed with boring wait at the end of the picnic relief. My mother was not yet relieved, except that no one would tell me who let alone amused. Her daughters had was being arrested for what, and I been crying and shouting - who knew certainly hadn't seen anything , what the man had been up to? The criminal. intruder went off to the drunk tank, If we heard a siren while on a drive, and, as if the morning had been quite my dad would swing in behind the ordinary, we went to church. emergency vehicle on the chance they Oh, after that, the creaks and might need some help. We always rustles continued, there was no approached accident scenes - albeit stopping the possibilities. But into our slowly- so he could talk to the officer memories and my dad's police gruffly turning other people away and scrapbook went a newspaper find out what was going on. photograph of my parents, then in their As I drive through the late 20s, with the rifle held between neighborhood now, I see that it has them. My mother's hair is long and accumulated trauma. It yielded several shining like Donna Reed's, her red young boys to Arthur Gary Bishop. lipstick looks black in print. My father Two joggers were shot on one comer is handsome in his uniform. Looking at of the park, and a few blocks away, a that picture, anyone could predict that police officer was gunned down. Yet we would all live in Salt Lake City the yards are still green, and children happily ever after. I ride their bikes in the streets and walk to school. If we were warned about strangers, Linda Sillitoe is a writer whose first slumber parties, poisoned candy, novel Sideways to the Sun has just rattlesnakes, and rabid animals, more been published. than most children, my mother "1:::.~r "If the seeds of civil and equal rights, the Vietnam War, the Watergate scan - . dal, and the space race were germi nating so1:11ewhere beyond our mountains, Danny Thomas, Donna Reed, and Betty Crocker were as innocent as I." 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Many thanks to: Salt Lake County Parks and Recreation, Salt Lake City Parks and Recreation, lntermountain Health Care Service and KSL AUGUST 1987/NETWORK 11 by Jane Brody by Melody Johnson AFISH TALE Gifts from the Sea 427 South West Temple STARCHING YOUR DIET By now you may be thinking, "But what is there left to eat? If staying healthy means I have to eat less protein and cut way back on fats and sugars, how am I going to fill my belly?" The answer is: with the very same foods your evolutionary ancestors ate - the complex carbohydrates, or starches, like potatoes, rice, pasta, bulgur, kasha, couscous, millet, corn, peas, beans, and other vegetables and fruits. When consumed mainly in their unrefined state, the complex carbohydrates represent the only category of foods that won't undermine your health, even if as many as 80 percent of your calories come from starch. (This presumes that the remainder ofyour caloric intake provides the protein, fatty acids, and additional vitamins and minerals needed to sustain life.) The first thing most Americans do when they decide to shed unwanted pounds is to cut out bread, pass up the potatoes and rice, and cross spaghetti dinners off the menu entirely. Instead, they may subsist on steak and salad, cottage cheese and fruit, tuna salad and tomatoes, chicken and green beans, or some such combination of a high-protein animal food and low-calorie fruit or vegetable. Before long they're feeling tired and listless and bored, and may even have trouble falling asleep at night. A high-protein, low-carbohydrate diet can make a laboratory animal fatter faster than a low-protein, high-carbohydrate diet will. A number of recent studies indicate that the body "wastes" more of the calories derived from complex carbohydrates than those that come from protein foods. There are at least two reasons for this caloric waste: 1. Carbohydrates seem to stoke the body furnace, causing more calories to be burned up as heat. This, incidentally, helps to keep you warm, which may explain why some women, many of whom subsist on high-protein diets, are "always cold"; 2. Up to a third of carbohydrate calories are not digested and instead are excreted unabsorbed. Thus, some carbohydrate calories you eat don't count as far as your body is concerned. (This is true only of complex carbohydrates. Unless you have an enzyme deficiency, sugars are usually fully digested and absorbed.) Furthermore, foods high in complex carbohydrates are less fattening than many of the most popular diet foods. This is because they contain less fat, and fat, you'll recall, is far more fattening than the same amount of starch, sugar, or protein. For example, a 5-ounce steak provides about 550 calories (80 percent of them fat calories). A 5-ounce baked potato, however, has only about 100 calories (0 percent fat if you don't add any). Even with two pats of butter or margarine or two tablespoons of sour cream, the potato has less than 200 calories. My husband is a perfect example of what can happen when you reduce your reliance on meats and eat more starches in their stead. If he ate less than one-half pound of meat at dinner, he said, he would still be hungry. Then he decided to give the high-carbohydrate plan a try. A year later he was 26 pounds thinner without having gone on a diet and without ever feeling hungry or deprived. He's thinner today at 52 than he was at 32 when we were married. And he feels healthier and more energetic than he has in years. As he puts it, "I hadn't realized that in cutting back on meats, I could eat more potatoes, rice, spaghetti, and bread. When I fill up on the starches, I'm satisfied with less meat." And by eating less meat and other animal foods, he consumes less fat and fewer calories. Today, the one-half pound of flesh my husband used to eat by himself for dinner feeds our four-member family, including two fast-growing teenaged boys. In the process, we all eat less fat and save money in the bargain. Our two-ounce portions of animal protein are supplemented by the protein in the starchy foods that are the foundation of our meals. And some dinners contain little or no animal protein because this essential nutrient is provided by protein-rich legumes ( dried beans and peas). Additional protein contributions come from our vegetables, bread, and Copyright 1985 by Jane E. Brody. Krcerptedfrom ·:Jane Brody·s Good Food Book,·· by Jane [Jrody. Published by W ~V. Sortm1 & Co., Inc. Distributed by Special Features Syndication Sales. 12 NETWORK/ AUGUST 1987 walking on the piers in the Southern California seaports brings back childhood memories of days spent watching fishing boats dock at the wharf to unload their catch of the day. The fishermen were colorful, hardworking, crusty men, and the open-air fish markets yielded the smell of boiling crab, fresh mahi-mahi, whole tuna, and unknown fish which came in a variety of shapes, sizes, and colors. Some had big teeth and vacant eyes; others had tentacles. We would always leave this market with a fresh crab or shrimp cocktail, and perhaps something more familiar- like halibut steaks wrapped in butcher paper. The warehouse of Gifts from the Sea is a long way from a California pier, but it is a rare find in Salt Lake City. Walking into the family-owned fish market is like stepping back in time. Except for the imported Italian display cases, the atmosphere is pure, old, unadorned fish market. Only the sand on the floor is missing. There are handpainted signs in front of the building to pique curiosity. Inside, the display cases are piled with iced mounds of snowcrab, scallops, shrimp of all sizes, oysters, lobster, sole, salmon (whole, fillet, steaks), snapper, shark, tuna, and halibut to name a few. Ocean-fresh fish are flown in daily. Day-old fish is labeled and sold at a lesser price. Special orders are welcome and are carefully iced and packed for the ride home, whether home is in Salt Lake City, Ogden, or Jackson Hole. The staff specializes in the preparation of Alaskan salmon, swordfISh,orangeroughy,cod,and mahi-mahi. For those new to fish cookery, there are recipes and plenty of ideas for parties of any size. Grilled lime-seasoned salmon (sesame-lime marinade), and blackening (a peppery crust) moist fish fillets of catfISh, redfish,cod,pollock,pompano,or haddock, are two favorites. There are other great grilling choices. Halibut: Delicate flavor. Best cut, fillets. Monkfish: Poor man's lobster. Best cut, fillets. Salmon: Favorite grilling fISh in the West. Best cuts, steaks or fillets. Shark: Usually mild flavored. Stronger flavored varieties benefit from a marinade. Best cut, steaks. Swordfish: Mild-flavored, firm-fleshed fish. Favorite grilling fISh in the East. Best cut, steak. Trout: Moist fISh. Best choices, dressed or pan-dressed. Tuna: Mild fish. Best choices, small pan-oressed, steaks or fillets. As the painting and fixing up of the old building continues, a deli will also be included at Gifts from the Sea, to compliment the epicurean needs of their customers. Seating is available for those who want to sit down and enjoy a fresh crab or shrimp cocktail. 1 Chilled Alaska Snow Crab Cluster with Cheese Dip and Fresh Fruit Orange-Cheese Dip 24 Servings 1 pound large curd, creamy cottage cheese 1 pound sour cream 1 pound mayonnaise 1 ounce sugar 1/4 cup orange rind, grated 1 tablespoon salt 4 pounds fresh pineapple wedges 3 pounds orange slices 24 lemon wedges Lettuce leaves - garnish Combine all dip ingredients, whip until blended. 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I maintain a desirable weight:" 2. lgetatleastl5to30continuous minutes of brisk (aerobic) exercise (e.g., brisk walking, jogging, cycling, swimming, aerobic dance/ aerobicize) at least every other day. 3. I do stretching/flexibility exercises at least every other day. *WOMEN: Allow 100 lbs. for the first 5 feet (60'') in height, and add 5 lbs. for each additional inch. MEN: Allow 106 lbs. for the first 5 feet (60'') in height, and add 6 lbs.for each additional inch. Subtract 10% from the result for a smallframe; add 1Oo/ofora large frame. SAFETY 3 1 0 3 1 0 OJ ti) OJ XERCISE 5 3 0 Ul OJ 1. I wear my seat belt. 2. I obey traffic rules and the speed limit. 3. I am careful when using potentially hazardous products. 4. I refrain from smoking in bed. ~COHOL DRUGS 3 2 0 3 1 0 400 1. I refrain from having more than twodrinksaday.(One drink= 1¼oz.liquor, 12 oz. of beer, or 5 oz. of wine.) 2. I refrain from using cocaine, marijuana, and other "mood-altering" drugs. 3. I refrain from driving after I have been drinking or using other drugs which could affect my driving skills. .§ .... e > OJ 0 00 J.-4 OJ z OJ 2 1 0 3. I have someone whom I can 2 1 0 3 1 0 DIET 3 2 .1 5 2 0 1. I have my blood pressure 5 2 0 TOTAL sco : STRESS 1 0 0 2 1 0 1. Imaketimeeverydayto relax and to do something I really enjoy. 2. I enjoy the work that I do, and enjoy my work environment. • 1. Eachdaylhaveatleast: • 3 servings of low-fat dairy products (e.g., low-fat milk, yogurt, cheese, cottage-cheese) • 2 servings of protein-rich foods (fish, poultry, legumes, etc.) • 4 servings of fruit and vegetables • 4 servings of whole-grains (e.g., bread, cereal, rice, 1 0 0 1 0 0 2 1 0 5. I refrain from adding salt to my food at the table, and I restrict the packaged and canned foods in my diet. 6. Irefrainfromeatingtoo much sugar (e.g., sugared soft drinks, pie, cake, candy, ice-cream). I sco : SCOIB: checked regularly and I know what my blood pressure is. (A normal b. p. is 120/80.) 2. I have my blood cholesterol level checked regularly, and I know what my cholesterol level is. (A healthful cholesterol level is 200 mg./dl. or below.) 0 TOTAL TOTAL BP CHOLESTEROL 2 1 0 talk to about personal matters and call on for help when needed. 4. lam able to vent feelings of 1 0 anger and frustration in healthyways(e.g., talkingit out, getting brisk exercise). 5. I manage my finances well TOTAL and set limits on my SCO:IB: spending. pasta) 2. I include a vitamin C-rich food (e.g., orange juice, grapefruit juice, citrus fruit) in my daily diet. 3. I include a vitamin A-rich food (e.g., broccoli, carrots, spinach, squash, sweet potatoes, zucchini, apricots, papaya) in my daily diet. 4. I restrict the fatty red meat, shortenings, and oils in my diet; limit egg yolks (whole eggs) to 3 or less a week; and use either skim or 1%milk. 10 1 0 4 1 0 OBACCO 1. Irefrainfromsmoking (cigarettes, cigars, or pipe). 2. I refrain from smoking cigarettes; but I smoke cigars or pipe, or use smokeless tobacco. TOTAL SCORE: YOURSCORE HOW DID YOU DO? that your lifestyle habits in that specific regard are likely excellent. If your score on any one section is between 6 and answered "Sometimes" or items the at look 8, "Never/Almost Never;" a few small changes could make a big difference. H your score on any one section is less than 6, there's a good chance some of your present lifestyle habits aren't that great in terms of your present or future health. Seriously consider talking to your doctor, employee health nurse, and/ or another health professional to see how they can help. WcGhle Saturdays lack to You AUGUST 1987/NETWORK 13 Office Politics: WORKING WITH A WAW~&IB Ifil( Q)~ ~ Take charge of an indecisive boss with strategies that put you in control. Repeat, reassure, repeat. You can't Say, "We're going to have to work closely on this project, especially since say things too often or too clearly for Rob is trying to kick a hole in it." You the indecisive boss. He/ she finds needn't specifically say that Rob is repetition soothing rather than undermining, but you will have to irritating. Many people easily follow the others that not convince That's the first four steps but balk here. disciplining Rob through the informal a mistake because repetition is a key system will be bad for each of them. method of persuasion. to the boss by saying, "We Appeal The biggest problem with an problem but Rob wasn't the solved indecisive boss is that subordinates, I'm sure he wanted to though helpful, denied even a modicum of direction, works, undermining Subtle be." tend to turn from team play to power distasteful. however grabbing. The temptation to Long term, you'll have to decide if manipulate the boss's weakness is enough career building there's practically irresistible. To do well in in this job to keep you experience your job, you've got to have superior expect the boss's boss to Don't around. negotiating skills and solid indecisive manager The anything. do relationships with everyone. You can't power. She/he staying great has order people to help you. You can't next level up few the causes usually It up. you count on your boss to back ideas, but no great no problems may be unfair but your best weapon for way you'll get only The either. disasters motivating others is the fact they need crises get the if is above from action need you your cooperation as much as Don't soars. turnover or hand of out theirs. Strategize by asking yourself, the from can you what Get it. on count "Why will it be good for the other on.I move and experience me?" person's career to cooperate with If a co-worker tries to take advantage of the boss's indecisiveness, Repn:nted with pennissionfrom the Kennedy Career Strategist, 1153 treat the person as a sniper and build Wilmette Ave, Wilmette, fl. 60091. even firmer bonds with everyone else. Ir following the problem/ all the top B-schools are turning out leaders, how does it happen that so solution/ discussion/ action step format and call in some chips with many people get stuck with bosses others who'll attend. For example, if whose leadership qualities are between nil and nonexistant? Where is you've solved the collections problem, present the solution and have others the hatchery for bosses who can't "testify" that they've found your make a decision and stick to it, or as one woman described her boss, "He's a methods useful. Don't ever go into a pillow. He bears the outline of the last litany of all the approaches you've tried and rejected. That confuses the issue person who leaned on him. The only way to get him to make a decision is to - and the boss. be the last person." Anticipate and manage Enough lamentation.You've met, or emergencies. Bosses who are will meet, such a boss. How do you indecisive are at their absolute worst in manage him/her? There are strategies an emergency. This burdens that will pop decisions out of the most subordinates with a mandate to cope relentless fence-sitter. Here are some without the boss's help whenever that work. The premium is on reporting possible. Never present a problem, present a after the emergency is happened what solution. If you ask, "What should we over. do?" you open terrifying vistas of gray Worst case scenarios should be with someone who prefers a black and used sparingly. Instead, talk about how white landscape. Don't even offer alternatives. Pick what you think is the your boss's stock will increase with his/her superiors. Every argument best solution then support it with needs to be anchored with statements evidence. such as, "You know how much the CEO Line up your supporters before a meeting. Don't spring an idea, however thinks of that company. I'm sure getting approval would be no brilliant or carefully conceived, in a group setting. Write a memo in advance problem." • Total pre-school curriculum • Ages 2-5 years (trained) • Nutritional lunch & snacks • Qualified staff STATE LICENSED Member of Utah Day Care Association MON.-FRI. 6:30 AM-6 PM MODERN NEW FACILITY Day Care Center 14 NETWORK/ AUGUST 1987 942-8939 2138 EAST 7000 SOUTH A TASTE FUL SUMME R Tchaikovsky's 1812 OVERTURE! AUGUST 7, 8&9 Christopher Wilkins, Conducting Peter Van De Graaff, Baritone SIBELIUS Finlandia and works by SUPPE• KODALY •GERSHWIN •COPLAND Live Cannon Fire by Karl Furr at Symphony Hall &by Mountain Men of the Wasatch at Deer Valley &Snowbird! SYMPHONY HALL • Friday, 8 p.m. • $10, 12, &15 DEER VALLEY• Saturday, 7 p.m. • $10, Family $29 SNOWBIRD• Sunday, 4 p.m. • $10 Special Repeat Per{ormance at Snowbird on Saturday, August 15 •4p.m.! Symphony Hall Box Office, Smith's Tix &at the Door ra2KUTV.1,•'t. ~I TOGETHER Kll.IIC50 MDIO 533-6407 by Elouise Bell UNPACKING INTERRUPTUS Many magazines, from Ladies Home Journal, which I read as a teenager, to MS, which I read as a prime-of-lifer, to Roughing It Raw, which I read during one dreamy summer when contact with reality was minimal - many have published articles about How To Pack. How To Pack for a weekend, How To Pack for a cruise, how to pack for a 10-day hike into a wilderness so primitive the birds still sport a few scales. But I have yet to read an article about How To Unpack. And that's the one I really need. I can pack in less time _than it takes to settle on a TV channel for the evening. I can pack twice in the time it takes three friends to decide where to have lunch next Tuesday. But I seem genetically unable to unpack. Unpacking a small overnight bag used for a sleep-over in Salt Lake City takes me four days. Unloading the weekend bag from a trip to Jackson Hole takes one week even; I've now been back 10 days from an extended trip to Europe, and I don't think I'll see the bottom of the suitcases before Labor Day. It wouldn't be so bad ifit were just a matter of tripping over two fully packed suitcases in the middle of the bedroom. But of course, that's not the situation. The situation is two bags perpetually yawning, trailing their unlovely contents, and insidiously taking over all available space like the devouring pods from Invasion of the Body Snatchers. A pile here, hoping to be laundered. A stack there, waiting to be escorted to the bathroom. A little cluster of presents anticipating delivery as soon as life gets back to , normal, ho-ho. The ill-at-ease group of items borrowed for the occasion and not yet returned, silently sending you •guilt messages from the dresser. And somehow, the recently returned , do~umenting my mosquito-bite scars, traveler seems to have a lengthy list of package up the impotent little gadget, chores and projects more urgent than tote it to the P.O., pay for its flight unpacking. home, etc. - or should I write off its Those of you who do not recognize cost as tuition in the Graduate School the scenario above are certainly free to ofU Live and Learn? leave now if you like. The rest of us will Well, let's keep an open mind on the draw our chairs into a circle and question. Surely there's a paper to be convene the Lay Psychologists League written on the subject - maybe a for yet another session. master's thesis. (I read a thesis once on Just what is at the bottom of "How to Wash a Blanket." Beehive unpacking interruptus? Is it as simple honor: the actual title was longer, of as the fact that some people are good course, but that's what it all boiled starters and poor finishers? Does it down to.) have to do with afterburn - the Before we adjourn the meeting, let complex of mopping-up chores that me throw out one final idea. The real accompany so many otherwise unpacking from a journey doesn't have pleasant activities, from having a to do with clothes, toiletries, and spaghetti dinner for eight to tramping accumulated souvenirs. It has to do with the dogs through the cool, with experiences, insights, inner fragrant (burr-infested) woods? changes - what we went away hoping Perhaps it arises from the disparate to see and do, what 'actually happened, principles governing packing and what we have brought back with us unpacking. When packing, we are that we didn't have before, or what we guided by one concern: what will I lost along the way. Utah's Reba Keele need? (And usually its corollary - is (member of the Board of Regents, BYU there room?) Unpacking has a very professor, network regular) recently different and much stickier set of returned from a tour of China and said, concerns: How come there's not room "The trip skewed my whole world for this in the closet now if there was view. I have a lot of mental rearranging before I left? Should I wash this lingerie to do." Whatever happens with the or just face up to the truth and throw it suitcases, we all need to "unpack" in this metaphoric way from journeys out? If I keep this combination that we consider significant. We need model-ship-picture-frame-andcandlestick, it willjust collect dust, but to be able to share with those close to if I don't keep it as a souvenir of the trip us what the experience has meant. If we are lucky, we find people who really to Cape Cod, will the Codders notice care and who want to listen. Some of us when they come here this fall? Will I use the resources of personal journals really put these play programs in a to "unpack" in depth. scrapbook, or will they simply add to An important truth we feminists the paper collection mildewing in the confront is that a great many women, basement? This battery-operated perhaps most women, have rarely had so-called mosquito repelling device opportunities to "unpack" from the (bought expre~sly for the trip) has a journey we all take, which is life, have money-back guarantee: is it worth.my had little or no chance to say where time to write a letter of complaint they have been and what they have complete with photographs seen and felt. Instead, they have had to keep that precious baggage within themselves, usually unexamined even by themselves, all their lives long. If you wo·nder why we are seeing more and more published biographies, autobiographies, and oral histories of women these days - and not just so-called distinguished women - the answer is that at last we (scholars, writers, publishers, teachers, readers) are starting to value and to search out the still-unpacked treasures from the attics and the basements of women from all walks of life, past and present. Not coincidentally, From the Attic, the literary supplement you see periodically (if not precisely quarterly) in network, seeks to provide one opportunity for such unpacking. The writing seminar that Attic's editorial board co-sponsored last January (with the U's DCE) focused very much on such "unearthing" of women's cargo. Writing classes such as Nancy Roberts' annual "Women's Voices" course do similar work. And there are more and more classes for those who want to read and discuss the material being published. For those who 'can't fit a class into their lives, the public libraries are full of t r e a s ~ • ~-~ --~_......., be discovered. If you have a trip ahead of you this summer, bon voyage! If you've made yours, welcome home! And as to the unpacking, well, I frequently find inspiration in movie titles. Like Now, Voyager. Or It'sNeverTooLate.Orthat great classic, Come September. Ah yes, that seems to fit. I Elouise Bell is a professor of English at BYU and an almost founding member of network's team of columnists. AUGUST 1987/NETWORK 15 Nothing is more interesting to one human being than another human being. Let a stranger ride into town, and the natives immediately want to know who she is. A new kid on the block is of immense interest to the neighbors. Butch Cassidy in his flight from the law asked, "Who are these guys?" Men in Ogden, used to doing business undisturbed, are asking the same question about a group of professional women who have had an impact on the business community in the last four years. The largest committee of the Ogden Area Chamber of Commerce is now a group of 250 women ( mostly new chamber members) who have come together to form Women in Management (WIM). The group has been hard to ignore. The successful increase in WIM membership is underscored by the fact that the WIMs second-year leader, Diane Brewster-Norman, is currently serving as chair of the Ogden Chamber's Board of Trustees. The energy and boldness of the group is underscored by their successful bid for the annual • convention of the National Association of Women in Chambers of Commerce which will take place in Ogden, September 10 to 12. The events and activities of WIM have often surprised the men of the Ogden Chamber who are used to making all the decisions without women, although their integration into chamber activities has been smoother than in some Northern Utah all-male clubs. The Ogden Rotary, for example (before the U.S. Supreme Court ruling requiring they admit women), voted to reject women as members. The Elks did the same. One Ogden Elk anonymously declares, "It's a man's club and it should remain that way." In Brigham City, Ed Laursen, secretary of The Elks Lodge, comments on a threatened lawsuit by a woman seeking entrance to an Elks Lodge in _St. George. "It's like someone trying to get into your home when you don't want them ... why are they still trying? No one wants them." clearly the Ogden Chamber wanted the women and were alert to the fact that 53 percent of the workforce is female. Only a few men objected when a group of 13 women chamber members went to the board of trustees in 1983 requesting to form a committee that would allow them to make contracts, get support, and become . more active in the chamber. (One amusing objection to the formation of such a group was that women would forget to pay for their lunches and become a burden to the budget.) However, the benefits to the chamber from the new energy and intelligence brought by WIM members swept away the doubts of the old boys' network. New women members immediately filtered beyond WIM into the chamber work program. Large monthly luncheons featured an impressive list of speakers from across 16 NETWORK/ AUGUST 1987 •• exua • o11cs ID by Marjorie Hilton ce a male bastion of power, the Ogden Chamber of Commerce is coping with a new power. the state. A scholarship fund provided professional d~velopment training to successful applicants. This committee has "made things happen." The convention of the National Association of Women in Chambers of Commerce will bring 300 to 400 women to Ogden. In his article on the upcoming convention, Cliff Thompson, business reporter for the Ogden Standard-ExamirJ,er, comments, "... this intrepid coterie of women will have achieved what many of their male counterparts only talk about.:._ making something significantly educational, economically important, entertaining, and beneficial happen in Ogden." Through its new committee the Ogden Chamber of Commerce has scored. WIM members (leJt to right), Shannon McBride, past WIM chair, Jane Marquardt, and Syh•ia Brubaker, chair of the WIM conunittee responsible for bringing to Ogde"(J. the National Association q_f Women in Chambers of Commerce annual coniientfon. Other chambers in the state are cheering them on. Saundra Hansen, current WIM chair and owner of Idlewire Pet Shop, sighs, "We've come a long way, babies," referring to the first two or three years when many long-time chamber members, mostly men, still did not know these women. Hansen recalls that the women did not know each other either, having long been isolated in their particular workplaces. In an effort to learn about each other, the WIM executive committee decided to do a study. Elaine Miller, then director of marketing-at McKay-Dee Hospital ( currently marketing and physician relations director), accepted the assignment from her associates on the executive committee to conduct an in-depth survey of the group. Miller decided to compare the local survey results with those of a 1986 Women's Day survey and with a similar research project by the Harvard Business Review. More than 56,000 women returned completed questionnaires to the Women's Day survey. The Harvard Business Review Survey compared questionaires sent in 1965 and 1985. One thousand nine hundred male and female executives responded to the Harvard survey, one of the most extensive studies of attitudes toward female executives ever published. Miller wondered how Ogden's businesswomen compared to businesswomen nationwide. She also reasoned that such a survey would introduce the new members to older members of the Ogden Chamber and provide a marketing tool to use with retailers and businesses. She knew that in order to sell a product, the seller must know the customer. McKay-Dee Hospital donated data-processing equipment and Miller's time to the project. (Hospital administrators also wanted information about these women.) Comparing the survey results not only answered questions about local businesswomen, but also answered questions such as: Are Utah women operating under the same conditions as other American women in the workforce? Are the gender problems more severe here than in other states? Are Utah women paid less, promoted less, titled less, educated less, and do they work more hours in two jobs- in business and at home? Do Utah women have to try harder and demonstrate exceptional abilities to succeed? The answers to these questions both surprise and confirm widely held notions WIM members have formed from their work experience in Ogden. Among the surprises, the Ogden survey results revealed that a larger percentage (12.9 percent) ofWIM members have advanced degrees than either men or women state or nationwide. Individuai comments by respondents indicate that in this highly educated and ambitious group are women who are often frustrated in menial, routine jobs. One women comments, "I didn't go through six •they enjoy more help from men in of Women in Chambers of Commerce will they alter the game itself, bring years of college and graduate work in raising children than the national (NAWCC). Now that we know who fresh perspectives to the business order to write memos for the boss. 1' respondents report. (Could this be these women are, other more subtle community, foster change in the Although the Harvard Business true, or do Utah women just expect issues can be raised. The WIM survey traditional way business has been Review survey results reports a less?) They also agree with the national documented the existence of many conducted by men? Will women marked increase in the awareness of perception that women work harder highly educated and trained women in consider the prizes for running in the men who are taking advantage of the today than they did in the past. To no management and business. They can fast lane sufficiently rewarding? Or will new management resources provided one's surprise, the Harvard Business become effective leaders if they pursue the rewards become unimportant once by women, the Ogden respondents feel Revieu•, Women's Day, and WIM that path and are allowed to perform. the personal costs are felt? Qualifying less valued by male co-workers. The survey results all indicate the belief Will these. new leaders be willing to for the race is one thing. Staying for the Ogden survey results parallel the that male executives earn more than assume the risks which surround men entire course is quite another. Ogden's Women's Day survey results which female. in similar positions? Are women so WIM group is grooming new players for report that 80 percent of its Miller intends to do a follow-up new at job politics that their inclination the fastest game in town, and the fans respondents believe that men survey in the coming year and, perhaps, toward peace at any price will be a and critics will be keeping score. I underestimate women in the to poll the women who will travel to handicap? Will women be willing to workplace. Seventy-five percent of the Ogden in September for the third sacrifice themselves to abstract ends Marjor·ie Hilton is the Ogden Ogden survey respondents agree that convention of the National Association . and to use the necessary means? Or co n·esponden t and editor for network. men generally undervalue them. Forty-three percent of the .------------------advertisement-----------------~ respondents to the Ogden poll work at the management level. Nineteen percent are in career professional positions. Some are owners of small businesses. Almost 58 percent of them have no preference when they are asked whether they prefer a male or a female boss. Forty-three percent of Women ·s Day respondents would veryday, hundreds of people are physselect a male boss while 14 percent ically pushing themselves to the limit. prefer a woman. Whether it's the football fumble, the tenWho are these Ogden women? Most nis twist, or the pirouette plop, today's (78.5 percent) of the respondents work active life has brought many of us to our knees-painfully. The knee is the largest, full time, and 53.5 percent out of choice most complex joint in the body. When it and economic necessity. Sixty-two works well, the bone moves smoothly on percent are married, and a quarter of cartilage; its ligaments, muscle and tenthese women have school-age children. dons assure us everything is aligned, supNot surprisingly, most (74.1 percent) portive and tough. Kids do cartwheels, agreed that young mothers are made to runners take to the road, and athletes to feel guilty about working and say that their many sports. However, in the not men expect too much of them in the too distant past, when a knee stopped area of child care and housework. A working, it often meant a large operation whopping 75 percent think that on the knee joint, and a hefty bill to pay. For some people, it also meant an end to officials do not give enough attention much of their athletically active life. to day care for children. Eighty-seven Today, much of this has changed. percent of Women's Day respondents Fiberoptive technology has produced the claim they feel their lives have grown arthroscope, a diagnostic and surgical more complicated but are happier and instrument that not only lets a doctor look more fulfilled than women 20 years directly into an injured knee to assess a Dr. Lyn Thompson performing arthroscopic surgery ago: 92.2 percent of WIM members problem, but also allows prompt surgical agree their lives are more complicated treatment of the problem. Most imporbut less than half agree that they feel tantly, arthroscopy has taken specific allows one to "see corners of the knee not what he or she does best and do it better. orthopedic operations out of the hospital normally seen by traditional incision." He In pursuit of perfection, people trip, twist, happier. and into the outpatient environment. It says one can get right to the heart of tear, and raise havoc with their knees. Back in the surprise department, has helped put athletes back to the play- the problem. Instead of the usual four inch Fortunately for them surgeons like Drs. fewer Ogden career women than those ing field and healthy activity back into cut and long term recovery, arthroscopy Thompson and McQueen are avid prosurveyed nationally complain that their the lifestyles of our health-conscious surgical incisions are so miniscule (¼"), ponents of sports medicine which emphahusbands are understanding but not the results are overwhelmingly beneficial. sizes protecting athletes so they will not community. helpful. Local women indicate that The healing process is shortened, the as- get hurt and developing the surgical cap- High Tech Approach Aids Return To Healthy Lifestyle E Healing Process Shortened Orthopedic surgeons affiliated with the SALT LAKE SURGICAL CENTER perform arthroscopy procedures involving dislocated kneecaps (common among adolescents), cartilage injuries and fragments, ligament tears, patella problems and arthritic difficulties. Orthopedic surgeon Dr. Lyn Thompson says arthroscopy GRAND OPENING SALES Classit· Furniture, Victorian, En~lish, Pinc, Country French, Upholstered furniture accessories Free Interior Design Service One of a kind Classical Furniture for less than new reproductions - Gift Items Finanrinv; Arnilahle. Visa and 1\'1asterCard t,l'JI 1m;1t1.\'\llllRl\'t: Dancers push to physical limits sociated risk of arthritis is minimized, a sedentary patient is up on his feet and back to work within days following outpatient surgery, and a lot of money is saved. Women Competing With a staff qualified to work with innovative orthopedic equipment, the Center has become an expert in arthoscopies. As more people exercise for fitness, competition -and health, the Center will undoubtedly do more. Orthopedic surgeon Dr. Craig McQueen says the dramatic increase in women competing in sports has also lead to a high increase of women getting hurt. Easily, half the people exercising today are women. Many are competing with men for college sport scholarships, playing what was once male dominated sports, and an untold number are involved in aerobics, marathons, gymnastics and dance. McQueen suggests that "upbringing, skeletal build, or muscle structure may make these women more vulnerable to injury." People who exercise aren't out looking to get hurt. Everybody wants to do SALT LAICE SURGICAL CENTER abilities to help ~hem recover quickly if they do. It is here the Center excels and the trauma of knee surgery is lessened. Aware of both the surgical and patient needs, the doctors see the Center as a plus for patients. "Psychologically, my patients have less fear, concern and worry when undergoing surgical procedures at the Center," says Thompson. "They know they're being well taken care of professionally and they know they're going home the very same day they are operated on." Arthroscopy of the knees, other joints and other orthopedic procedures are done at the Salt Lake Surgical Center by the following orthopedic surgeons: Thomas Baumen, M.D. Dennis Gordon, M.D. Robert Hansen, M.D. Craig McQueen, M.D. J. Jackson Millet, M.D. Robert Moseley, M.D. A. Owen Smoot, M.D. Thomas Soderberg, M.D. Edward Spencer, M.D. Lyn Thompson, M.D. Gerard Vanderhooft, M.D. Gary Zeluff, M.D. 617 East 3900 South, SLC, UT 84107 261-3141 AUGUST 1987/NETWORK 17 I~ addition to the craziness created enforcement of rules, arbitrary by Editor's note: For obvious reasons, other co-dependents, unlike ACOAs, this for many of those interviewed face a genetic predisposition to article wish to remain anonymous. alcoholism. Studies show that sons of Those whose names have been fathers are four times more alcoholic *. an • changed are noted with likely to become alcoholics than the sons of nonalcoholic fathers, and that daughters of alcoholic mothers are three times more likely to become "We've lost, and we've lost, and alcoholics than those women with we've lost. We lost our childhood, we nonalcoholic mothers. Although lost our parents, we lost relationships women are less likely to become in which we could have and should alcoholics themselves, they have a have had some sort of intimacy, and we strong tendency to do something lost our self-esteem," says Dr. Michael almost as destructive. They are more King, an adult child of alcoholic likely to choose alcoholics or other parents, and coordinator of the Adult unstable or abusive men as mates, a Children of Alcoholics program at Step choice which ensures that their adult One, Lakeview Hospital's substance lives will be lived in the same cycle of treatment and education program. frustration and sorrow that For most of the 28 to 34 million characterized their childhood lives. adult children of alcoholics in America Regardless of the child's age when a ' the pain from these losses lasts a: becomes alcoholic, the child's parent lifetime. Children of alcoholics learn at is dramatically affected. development an early age not to talk, trust, or feel. is alcoholic when the mother the If Instead, they develop coping child is born, she'll be less able to mechanisms that carry them through . respond to the child's physical and the chaos of their childhood. These emotional needs. If the father is already strategies, which helped them survive an alcoholic, the mother may spend so destructive become childhoods, their time and energy dealing with his much and inappropriate in adulthood. For that she neglects the child. alcoholism most, the early imprint guarantees a the lifetime of painful relationships. A few, Before the child develops equipment emotional and intellectual however, those who are able to accept, or she must he problem, the identify to recognize, and eventually forgive the painful reality that they were raised in experience the effects of chaos in the homes that harmed them, discover that home. "Alcoholic families are often too there is light at the end of the bottle. obsessed with alcohol and the Adult children of alcoholics alcoholic to provide the focused (ACOAs) suffer from a behavior attention, consistently adequate care, pattern called co-dependency. A co-dependent learns early that survival and the mutual regulation that children need to build a basic trust in depends on skillful coexistence with and the world around themselves others whose behavior is often them," says Timrnen L. Cermak, M.D., unpredictable. As a result, in his book,A Primer on Adult co-dependents focus on external people and things so intensely that they Ch-ildren of Alcoholics. This lack of basic trust stymies the never develop a sense of self. Karin child's ability to develop a sense of Krueger, a licensed marriage and autonomy. The alcoholic home lacks family therapist and certified alcohol the consistent discipline and the and drug-abuse counselor, and an flexible, loving, external control ACOA herself, says, "A co-dependent person neglects the self and, as a result, children need as they learn to differentiate from their parents, says has no self identity." Cermak. They are so busy responding The joke most often told by adult children of alcoholics who are working to the unpredictable behavior of their parents that they have no time to to change their lives tells the whole develop internally. Furthermore, they story: have no reliable behaviors against "What is a co-dependent?" which to measure themselves. Without "A person who, when drowning, self-identity, these children have no sees someone else's life pass before defense when they are blamed again her eyes." and again for all that goes wrong within According to Robert Subby, M.A., and John Friel, Ph.D., co-dependency is the family. Finding someone to blame for whatever goes wrong is perhaps the nurtured by a set of rules within the only consistent behavior within family system. These rules are both co-dependent families. Children are simple and devastating: easiest to blame and the most likely the It's not okay to talk about problems. the burden. Consequently, accept to feelings. about talk not Do •••••••••• these children begin early to Do as I say, not as I do. •••••••••••••••• demonstrate an over-developed sense It's not okay to play. ••••••••••••••••••••• of responsibility for others. boat. the rock • Don't • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • ••• Within this confused and erratic These rules also govern the lives of •••• •••••••••••••••••••••••••••• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • children living in families gripped by development, Claudia Black, Ph.D., M.S.W., a California specialist on • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • other compulsive behaviors such as children of alcoholics and author of It • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • gambling, drug abuse, overeating, • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • chronic illness, and rigid religious WW Never Happen to Me, says there • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • attitudes. However, adult children of are three unchanging rules children of • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • alcoholics differ from other alcoholics learn: Don't talk, don't trust, • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • co-dependents because the rules that and don't feel. "We were never allowed to talk, to governed their childhood were express ourselves, and we weren't inconsistently applied. King says ' " Children of alcoholics have allowed to have feelings/' says King, unpredictable reinforcement. One day the youngest of three children. King's family had another rule. "We were also it's okay to ride your bike down the taught that children were not to be .street, the next day it's not. That seen or heard." King spent much of his irregular reinforcement creates childhood hiding behind a potbelly craziness." • • • Overshadowed by chaos and family turmoil, children raised by alcoholic parents . experience trauma that can last a lifetime. 18 NETWORK/AUGUST 1987 stove hoping to stay out of harm's way. Children of alcoholics live with a constant fear of angering the alcoholic parent, or disrupting the delicate balance of the alcoholic home. These children don't talk about, or share, their fears, worries, or hurts about anything with anyone. Not only are children of alcoholics discouraged from expressing their feelings, they are also discouraged from talking about the problem. Instead of confronting the problem, they generate a series of excuses and fantasies. Eventually, the excuses and fantasies are accepted as truth, and creating excuses and fantasies becomes the acceptable way to deal with a painful problem. Family members focus on the problems drinking ~auses, but they have difficulty associating drinking with these problems. This is particularly true if the alcoholic does not drink at home or while in the presence of the children. "It is easier to invent reasons, other than alcoholism, for crazy behavior," says Black. Vicky Sandall was raised in a home with an alcoholic father. She remembers telling friends that her father was dead. "I wanted to beat up my cousin once because she saw my dad at a bar," she says. "I just didn't want anyone to know." King also escaped from family turmoil through fantasies. "I had a whole fantasy life," says King. "I could meet people and lie about what my family was like. I'd say things like, 'My brother is a flier, and my dad has a yacht, or a sailboat.' "This ability does not serve adult children of alcoholics well. "As an adult, I found myself lying when there wasn't a reason to lie," says King. In an effort to protect the family secret and avoid embarrassment, many children of alcoholics never develop healthy relationships with other children. They live a life isolated from their feelings, their parents, and from outside associations. "I spent a lot of time alone. I faked sick a lot to get attention, but it was never there," says "Ittookme six months to iden tify a feeling of my own.I had intellectualized so much of my life, I had frozen feelings,'' Sandall. Although Sandall's mother was not an alcoholic, she was not emotionally available, because like other sober spouses, she was busy fixing the alcoholic. Like many children of alcoholics, Sandall also learned to not trust. "Dad would say he was going fishing for the weekend, and then he'd be gone for a week or 10 days," says Sandall. "In fact, he'd actually never leave the area. People would call and say 'We've seen y~ur Dad at the bank, or Albertsons.' My mother and I would hurry and get in the car and try and find him. He'd write checks out in a drunken coma and never realize how much money he was spending. It would take months to catch up on the money," she remembers. To trust another means investing confidence, reliance, and faith in that person. Trust is often dangerous in an alcoholic home so it is a virtue unlearned and unexperienced. The Jekyll and Hyde behavior of the alcoholic creates an atmosphere of uncertainty and fear that teaches that watchfulness is the only sure defense. In an alcoholic home, trusting is stupid. Just as children from alcoholic homes learn to not trust others, they als9 learn not to trust their own perceptions of what is happening within the family. A child who is told that nothing is wrong when her mom's head falls into her salad at the dinner table, must adjust her spontaneous responses to seemingly disturbing circumstances. "What I perceived as a problem, I was told wasn't a problem. That was extremely confusing," says Donna*, an ACOA. The impulse to deny problems is so strongly ingrained in children of alcoholics that they grow up almost unable to determine the difference between real and concocted feelings and perceptions. What children learn from these types of experiences is not to feel at all. "I can remember saying I needed help or that something was wrong, that I needed to talk to someone, and all I'd get back was, 'There's nothing wrong, everything's fine. What's wrong with you?'" says Sandall. When feelings are discounted, ignored, or made fun of, chtldren begin to feel shame and guilt for their feelings. Eventually they shut their feelings off altogether. When a child learns to not talk, not trust, and not feel, the anxiety can be overwhelming. In an effort to create some kind of order out of the chaos they are living with, many children adopt roles that provide a sense of order and belonging. The eldest sibling often takes on the role of "hero," assuming the duties that both the alcoholic and spouse have neglected. As the oldest of five siblings, Donna* adopted the "hero" role within her family. "I had an umbilical cord that reached out to all of my family. I was always needing to be perfect, and all of my thoughts were focused on how to fix the family problem," says Donna*. The second child often becomes the "scapegoat" for the family by acting out the family pain through rebellion. The scapegoat is usually a boy heading for delinquency, or a girl who runs away or becomes an unwed mother. The family members blame the scapegoat for their troubles, thus avoiding facing their real problem, alcoholism. The "lost child," usually a middle child, reacts to the turmoil that exists in an alcoholic family by withdrawing and becoming a loner. The "mascot," usually the youngest child, relieves family tension with jokes and humor and diverts attentio from the real problem. Not all children from alcoholic homes fit into these neat categories or adopt the don't talk, don't trust, don't feel rules. The severity of the parent's drinking, if and whe~ the parent stops drinking, the child's age when the family disruption is worst, the amount of marital conflict in the home, the number of siblings, the sex of the alcoholic parent, and the child's relationship \\ith the nonalcoholic parent, all affect the degree of trauma the child experiences. Children of alcoholics can also avoid some emotional and social distress if they are included in the family of a friend where feelings are openly expressed and where they are able to talk about their problems. A close relationship with a teacher, minister, or another outside adult figure may help children of alcoholics grow up unharmed. 'I llmenhad to be charming, witty, handsome, and underneath that, someone who was emotionally unavailable,like my fathef The degree to which children of alcoholics are crippled in their ability to form secure relationships is difficult to determine. However, the don't talk, don't trust, don't feel rules they carry into adult relationships often prevent them from experiencing happiness and meaning in their lives. Children of alcoholics grow-up with little or no self-esteem. "I didn't know what self-esteem was," says King. ''I'd never developed it. I also see this with people in my adult children of alcoholic support groups. These people have never developed a sense of self, a sense of identity. They cannot tell you who they are," says King. To fill the gaping hole within themselves, adult children of alcoholics often become superachievers or workaholics. They get their self-esteem from their accomplishments. However, the lack of integration between what they are doing and what they are feeling, causes many of them to burnout or eventually to decide that what they are doing is meaningless. "I was successful in business, I was a pretty good clinician, but I never established my own identity," says King, who notes that 60 percent of those in the helping professions, such as therapy and counseling, are adult children of alcoholics. Not only do adult children of alcoholics feel unfulfilled in their professions, they often feel unfulfilled in their relationships. An obvious reason for the difficulty is that since ACOAs have never seen one, they have no frame of reference for a healthy, intimate relationship. Ellen*, an adult child of an alcoholic father who, herself, has married and divorced two alcoholics, remembers the feelings she had about men before she began her recovery. "All men had to be charming, witty, handsome, and underneath that, someone who was emotionally unavailable, like my father." Ellen* was emotionally unavailable for her spouse as well. "You can't shut off your feelings for 25 to 30 years and then just say, 'Okay, now I'm going to feel.' Adult children of alcoholics' relationships break down because they aren't able to share close intimate feelings," says Krueger. Donna* agrees. "What affected me most was my inability to feel, trust, or to talk about what was going on within me. I was living in my head, telling myself how to feel. It took me-six months to identify a feeling of my own. I had intellectualized so much of my life, I had frozen feelings," she says. Feelings freeze when a loved parent comes close then suddenly disappears. The child of an alcoholic parent is required to live with feeling loved one day and rejected the next. They believe that they must have done something wrong, or were not lovable enough for consistent affection. "I felt very lost, and lonely, and confused a lot," says Sandall. "I felt like my dad was drinking because of something I did. I'd see people in a normal home and ask, 'Why can't I have that, what's missing in my life? Why do I feel so lonely, so isolated from the rest of the world?' " Children of alcoholics compensate for their feelings of helplessness by learning to control their emotions and their environment as tightly as possible. "If we're not controlling ourselves, then we're out of control," says King. Control becomes an all or nothing endeavor for ACOAs. The tendency to over-control also prevents the ACOA from having healthy relationships. "I was going to hurt other people before they got a chance to hurt me," says Sandall. It is when ACOAs feel least in control, however, that most of them begin the recovery process. "The gun was loaded, I was going to kill myself. I was at the very bottom," says King, who put down the gun and called for help instead. "ACOAs begin recovery by reconstructing the past and re-experiencing the feelings they repressed and denied as children," says Krueger, who treats many ACOAs initially for depression. "They're depressed because they're numb," she says. The recovery process requires ACOAs to let go of the anger and sadness they have been holding in so tightly in order to avoid becoming overwhelmed by the awareness of their parent's alcoholism. Once they begin to overcome the denial and go back and re-experience the feelings they had as children, they can begin the grieving process and eventually let go of the anger and pain. "We 're angry because of our losses, and we have this backlog of delayed grief for those losses," says King. Both King and Krueger agree that working through the pain of lost childhood, lost parents, lost self-esteem, and lost relationships is necessary for recovery. "Unless the feelings of loss are recognized and dealt with they will still be in the unconscious," says Krueger. "Recovery means working through the grief you feel for those losses, completing it, and letting it go.'' After feeling is unfrozen and recognized and felt, these adults who stopped living as children can begin integrating their knowledge and understanding of their past with their present experiences. At this point, ACOAs are encouraged to not try to Continued on next page. AUGUST 1987/NETWORK 19 control feelings, or other people, but to state needs and emotions clearly, allowing others to react to them as they wish. Through this process, the ACOA slowly begins to believe that there are choices other than those learned in childhood for loving and living with family members. Eventually, the ACOA begins to recognize feelings and perceptions that can be trusted. Relationships improve and the ACOA is more flexible and willing to abandon the rigid perfectionist attitudes. Self-esteem and security follow. Sandall began her recovery with an . Al-Anon group almost six years ago. For adult children of alcoholics, no day was ever the same. Growing up with aJcoholism means never knowing whether to be loving or to have your defenses up. And this state of teetering stays with a child into their adult life. At Lakeview Hospital, we know what devastating effects this imbalance of emotion can have on adults. Adults who have silently experienced the ups-anddowns carried over from living in a family touched by alcoholism, physical and emotional abuse. All across the country, adult children of alcoholics are getting help to gain an understanding of what happened. Why it still hurts. And once and for all, to resolve the guilt, the shame and the confusion of alcoholism. If you experienced the ravages caused by dysfunctional family problems: we'd like to help. 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This process is worth beginning and following .. . regardless of how long it takes to complete. My understanding of this process began at the Nevada test site. I was skeptical. I had never been active in politics and was distrustful of group demonstrations. Crazed sports fans in high school had convinced me that large groups could be whipped into a frenzy and manipulated. Attending college in the late '70s, I always avoided the few political demonstrations there were on campus. My college major was international relations, and through my studies, I had come to the conclusion that the nuclear arms race was an enormously complex issue that only the experts could understand. The issue overwhelmed me. I had by Nini Rich developed a distrust of easy answers, simplistic solutions, and rabbleyear of putting a good deal of time, n August 6, 1945, the United States energy, and care into study, education, rousers. dropped a 15-kiloton atomic bomb on With all these beliefs intact, I had and action to end the nuclear arms the Japanese city of Hiroshima. Seventy thousand people were killed in race, the potential for destruction and come to the Nevada test site for a political action. I was there because a the first five minutes, tens of thousands the staggering statistics are numbing. friend, whose values I shared, had gone feel me made they year, this Until more died as a result. The deadly powerless. Now, though there are still earlier and been deeply moved by the effects of the radioactive fallout experience. I decided to go as an times when I feel overwhelmed, I no continue to this day. Since then, the observer and, if nothing else, confirm I what believe I powerless. feel longer nuclear United States has exploded 841 my belief that this was not the kind of bombs totaling approximately 173,000 do can make a difference. activity I wanted to be political The new hope I feel doesn't come kilotons. More than 700 of those have in. involved way easy an is there that belief a from 63 about site been detonated at a test The people I met destroyed these miles northwest of Las Vegas, Nevada. to end the nuclear arms race or that all This kind of information has always of the interconnected problems will be opinions. They were not the protesters I had imagined. Instead they were a solved any time soon. My hope grows overwhelmed me. Even now, after a ~: :~•:-;-,•.·.·.•-· -:.::~;: A lesson in consensus brings nuclear protestors one step closer to peace. 0 group of people who believed that conflict is an inevitable part of human relationships that can be resolved in creative and nonviolent ways. What impressed me most about these people was their commitment to a process that was consistent with their goal. Peace is not their goal; peace is their process. Their goal is an end to the nuclear arms race. They believe that ending the testing of nuclear weapons will help achieve that goal. I already shared their goal. It was the process that moved me to act. I arrived at the test site the day before the demonstration. The organizers asked that all participants come a day early to prepare for the action. Upon registration I was handed a brochure with the following information. Nonviolence Guidelines All participants must agree to abide by these guidelines: 1. All activities must be strictly nonviolent in action and tone. The attitude conveyed through words, symbols, and actions should be one of love, openness, and respect toward all people encountered. 2. All participants must undergo nonviolence training. 3. No property will be damaged. 4. All activities must be open and public, not secret. 5. No participant will bring or use any drugs or alcohol. 6. All participants must freely accept the legal consequences of their A The Ogden Symphony-Ballet JI]!!!_ Association presents UTAH SYMPHONY SERIES Christopher WIikins, conducting Grant Johannesen, piano KRAFT of Ceremonies, Pageants & Celebrations (This is an American wort< which is being performed in honor of the Bicentennial of U.S. Constitution) MOZART Piano Concerto No. 14. K.449 CHOPIN Variations of "Laci darem la mano" SIBELIUS Symphony No. 2 Joseph Sllventefn, conducting OCTOBER 8 Malcolm FraQer, piano DVORAK Serenade for Strings PROKOFIEV Piano Concerto No. 3 ELGAR "Enigma" Variations Christopher WIikins, conducting OCTOBER 29 Joseph SIiverstein, violin COPLAND Appalachian Spring WALTON Variations on a Theme by Hindemith DVORAK Violin Concerto Joseph SIiverstein, conducting FEBRUARY 4 Andre Watts, piano BERLIOZ Roman Carnival Overture HARBISON Symphony No. 1 BRAHMS Piano Concerto No. 1 Joseph SIiverstein, conducting MARCH 3 Ralph Matson, violin to '"La Princesse Jaune .. Overture SAINT-SAENS SAINT-SAENS Violin Concerto No. 3 TCHAIKOVSKY Symphony No. 5 Joseph SIiverstein, conducting MARCH 17 David Buechner, piano MOZART Symphony No. 33 MOZART Concert-Rondo. K.386 LISZT Totentanz for Piano and Orchestra SCHUMANN Symphony No. 2 Joseph SIiverstein, conducting APRIL 7 Lynn Harrell, cello SCHUBERT Overture in the Italian Style BARTOK Music·for Strings. 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It also meant that any individual could block a proposal out of strong personal conviction, regardless of how many others support it. I was skeptical, but coming to consensus within my affinity group that first day convinced me of its value as a tool in the peace process. Still the method seemed impractical, so I was taken aback when the organizers explained that although they had prepared a recommendation on how the demonstration at the test site could be carried out, the final decision was to be reached by consensus of all the participants. "All participants" meant hundreds of people, from all over the United States, from a wide range of ages and occupations, who had come together for the first time that morning. Gain While You Lose. Gain tone energy stamina independent control motivation° strength. Lose what you want where you want without counting calories. O O 537-7799 O O Private Sessions Confidential Gift Certificates Available SHE. DOESN'T WANT mHATE LIFE. BUT SHE DOES. 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Beginning as young as language skills, creative expression, large and small motor coordination, social, 3 1/2, children who may have never left their mother or father, develop physical and emotional, and school-readiness skills. social skills that benefit them for life. Innovative teachers encourage movements that The school-age program offers fun-filled hours for children ages six to 12 both increase a child's strength, flexibility, endurance, and rhythmic skills. The littlest before and after school. Transportation is provided for grades one through six to the dancers learn to take turns and interact with others their own age while they develop the following elementary schools: Mountain View, Parkview, Edison, Jackson, Franklin, self-confidence that comes with new physical and social skills. Rose Park, Backman, and Washington. Mary Ann Lee, Virginia TannerCreativeDanceProgramdirector,saysthatparents •. All age groups participate in community field trips, cooking experiences, and special • • • • see marked improvement in specific creative skills. We ask children to observe and to • . events. The spacious facility is equipped wit.p individual classrooms, children's kitchen, • : • : • create. They become aware of the world, of lines, designs, shapes, and spaces. This new . and a gym. awareness transfers to other areas in their lives. Children who have grown up with the • Some of the special events planned for the fall include a dance class for nursery-aged • • • Tanner program often excel in other "art" areas such as music, photography, and • children, artistic expression, and athletic programs for school-aged children. All groups • • • • • writing. And the self-discipline and desire for perfection instilled from years of practice will participate in enrichment programs offered through the Museum of Natural History, . • . • . benefit them in school studies and beyond. Ballet West, Hansen Planetarium, and Tracy Aviary. • • The Virginia Tanner Creative Dance Program has classes running year-round for children 3 1/2 to 18. Call now for registration information for classes in Salt Lake, Bountiful, and Sandy. REALMS OF INQUIRY SCHOOL REALMS SCHOOL EXISTS TO CREATE A HIGHER SENSE OF THE POSSIBLE. Realms of Inquiry is a school designed for students who have demonstrated exceptional learning abilities, but for any number of reasons may not be realizing their full potential. Realms exists to create a higher sense of the possible. That sense is reached through a largely traditional liberal arts curriculum. The features of the curriculum which make Realms a refreshing learning opportunity are in the hows, whys, wheres, and whens of learning, not just the whats. First, there is space and time at Realms for learning. A ratio of fourteen students per teacher makes it possible for vital, two-way communication to occur - from student to teacher, and often from student to student. There is enough time to enhance three other Rs as important as Reading, 'Riting, and 'Rithmetic. These other Rs are Recognition, Response, and Respect. There are fewer chances to miss how important people are at Realms. Teachers and students are flesh and blood people, each one different - not numbers being shuffled from one school to another to meet legislative requirements or to improve cost effectiveness. A fourth R exists in the Realms curriculum - Risk taking. Not the daring challenge of bravado, but risk taking that considers all the available facts and then goes ahead with a decision based on that knowledge. Such risk taking is an integral part ofreal learning. Realms' extensive outdoor program embodies that well-defined risk-taking experience and the individual-at-large-in-the-world philosophy of the school. The outdoor ptograms and the drama experiences all foster a climate of self-trust, and build within young people a willingness to trust others. Realms' outdoor activities are especially successful. Kids make decisions about what to do, and then do it. This happens in an environment which encourages students to push themselves just one step further. That calculated risk is often what education is about because it propels students farther along the learning continuum and creates the awareness that greater achievement is possible. Fifteen years as a viable part of the educational community brings Realms to a maturity it wishes to share. EDUCATION: More Than Just Sitting Around AComputer T he emphasis in education today seems to be on "marketable skills." But the leaders of tomorrow will need more than just technological training. They will need self-confidence, accuracy in thinking, and the ability to make tough decisions. Those kinds of skills are acquired though a broad range background of experiences and in a variety of settings. R ealms of Inquiry is a liberal arts school in the traditional sense. We offer courses in the basics - reading, writing and arithmetic - plus a variety of other stimulating subjects, including drama, music, foreign language, the sciences, electronics, and even computers. Our Outdoor Program is unmatched in the area. Taking advantage of Utah's easily accessible "outdoor classrooms," we provide challenging and enjoyable courses in biking, backpacking, river rafting, rock climbing and caving. C omputers are here to stay. Specialization is a fact of modem life. But at Realms we believe that a well-rounded, thinking person has more opportunity not only for a better job, but a better life. Realms Of Inguiry_ A 24 NETWORK/AUGUST 1987 Pr,vate Scr,oo 467-5911 .............................................................. Backt Sh 1Sh ... ... .~····I ... . .. . .······· . .. . . . ..······· • • • • • • • • •······· ······· -------------------J o •••••••• •••••••• •••••••• ••••••• Salt Lake Boy's & Girl's Clubs, Inc. Capitol West Child Care Center Year Round Programs State License Open to boys and girls 3-12 Register Now for September through May Call For Lowe r Fall Rates Convenient Payment Terms Available NEW FACILITIES INCLUDE: A SPECIAL EVENTS ROOM. GAMES ROOM. ARTS & CRAFT ROOM. COMPUTER ROOM, GYMNASIUM, LUNCH ROOM. lWO GROUP ROOMS. Contact: Jane Hansen 531-144 4 • :r~ Peggy Coupe 531-144 4 '1 Register: 567 West 300 North opper coo •••••••••••••••••••••·········· SALT LAKE BOYS AND GIRLS CLUB, INC. The (Sugarhouse) Salt Lake Boys and Girls Club, Inc. has developed its child-care programs to prO\ide parents with affordable child care and to provide children with a safe environment where they can make new friends and participate in well-rounded recreational activities. The Boys and Girls Club has a goal: to offer children the best possible care and to encourage their social, physical, and emotional growth by providing programs that are geared to the needs and age of each child. The center easily accomplishes this through its many programs and activities scheduled year-round. During the school year, a wonderful before and after school (latchkey) program is available for children attending neighborhood schools. Fun recreational and educational acthities such as computer awareness are offered. Transporta.tionto and from school is provided. Kindergarteners attending school half-days are welcome in a special program designed to meet their tender needs. A variety of play activities and recreation programs fills the difficult gap between school and the time when parents return home from work. The Capitol West child-care center is licensed for a 3- and 4-year-old preschool, as well. A full-time socialization program provides youth with the opportunity to interact socially with children their own age. The scheduled activities foster cooperation with adults and children, making the transition to elementary school much easier. The summer day camp is offered to kids 3 to 12. Campers go on exciting field trips, play outside sports, learn improvement skills and computer awareness, and much more. The camp activities are designed to provide each child with the opportunity to have fun during the summer, to make new friends, and to participate in educational activities that are also fun! Parents can register children for one-week sessions or the entire summer. (Pre-registrat ion is encouraged.) The Salt Lake Boys and Girls Club provides affordable child care for many children, yet retains the special individual contact so important to lit tle people. Capitol West says "We try to keep in mind that each child has personal needs that must be met. Each child has charm, strengths, and a special way of viewing the world which is unique to him or her. We let them know that their uniqueness is what makes them special and lovable." AGEN C Y Qt= UNITED WAY Pre-School • Kindergarten • After School IN RECOGNITIO N "BECAUSE IT'S MY CHILD!" "I used to feel a little guilty about putting my child in childcare ... now that I know about Tutor Time, I'd feel guilty if I didn't!" • Open 6:30 AM to 6:30 PM • Breakfast, Lunch, Snack • Computer Reading & Math - Ages 2 & up • Infant and Toddler Care & Program • Drama, Music, Dance, Art, Science • Loving, Caring, Experienced Staff • Private Accelerated Kindergarten • Summer Grade School Program • Full Time / Part Time Care . PM Magazine says it 's, "Unlike any other day care you have ever seen." A place where kids learn to love learning! c:::::I CH ILDCARE. LEAR N ING CE N TERS U OF U RESEARCH PARK 505 Wakara Way SLC, UT 84108 582-3243 HOLLADAY 4048 S 2700 E Holladay. UT 84117 277-6611 DOWNTOWN 346 S 500 E SLC. UT 84102 363-5437 WEST JORDAN 7800S3400W West Jordan. UT 84084 561-5777 THE BICENTENN IAL CELEBRATIO N THE u. s. * * ,.:~ ·,'r ,'r ,'r. r't: ;r ;,.{ -)r ;( ,\ ;( ,'r ,'r ,'r ,>: ·,.'~ ,'r ,'r CONSTITUTI ON PRESENTS -·-·-·-FamiliesAlive "' X * ",! ;.'r FAMILIES ALIVE: ENHANCING RELATIONSHIPS, SHEPHERD UNION BUIILDING, WEBER STATE COLLEGE, OGDEN, UTAH SPONSORED BY lliE DEPARTMENT OF QilLD AND FAMILY STUDIES AND DIVISION OF CONTINUING EDUCATION KEY BENEFITS OF ATTENDANC E grandparents, students, educators, or professionals (t~che~, social wo~ers, g~idanre counse~rs, * Parents, physicians, nurses, psychologists, child/family therapists, ect.), will gam concrete information you can use m . helping families become stronger and healthier. families more effectively handle their daily lives-etther your own family or the * Get information to helpprofessionally . . every day. families you work with Dr. Stephen Glenn, who 1s returning because of * Learn from outstanding family authortties ofincluding last _year's conference. He will be offering both general and . * * * * overwhelming requests from participants specialized sessions. In addttion, many other family specialists will be presenting practical information you can use in your daily lives. Twenty-two different workshops will give you the information you want about families. Learn how to prepare your families for the nineties. Find out the role of the federal government in supporting families. Learn how to enhance parent-dlild relationships. Listen to a family's story about their child's struggle with drugs. Enjoy the Nurturing Hand Award Luncheon and nutritious refreshment breaks. Earn College Credits while gaining information to use wtth your families. Visit the video film festival which will run throughout the conference. Enjoy a musical salute to the American Family. Come to the free, public opening presentation by Dr. Stephen Glenn, Thursday Night. * * * * * * .' . * For more information, call the Division of Continuing Education at 626-6600 or send this coupon to: Division of Continuing Education, Attention: Marketing, Weber State College,Ogden, UT 84408-4004 ...............................................................' -Back to School Shopper ..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..•..• --------------------~ • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • ·J FOR - - ~ EXCELLENCE _ _ _ _ i-------lN EOUCATION---1 ----1 ROWLAND HALL - ST. MARK'S The fall curriculum is brimming with a variety of skills courses. The faculty are chosen from among the very best in Salt Lake City, and they impart to students their own joy in scholarship. Two locations of Rowland Hall - St. Mark's serve grade school and high school students in classes with a maximum enrollment of 22 pupils per class. The lower school, located at 205 First Avenue, schedules morning and afternoon sessions. Pre-school beginning with a 2 and 3 year old program, 3 and 4 year old program, or 3 and 4 year old pre-kindergarten. All classes are half day 3 or 5 days a week. Physical education and art are included in the lower grade curriculum. The kindergarten program offers half day and full day programs. First and second grades are full day courses. Third through sixth grades have speciality courses including foreign language and gymnastics. Electives are also available. Our January, February, and March months will offer a winter sports elective program, including swimming, ice skating, skiing, and roller skating. Rowland Hall - St. Mark's Upper School is an independent, co-educational school offering a strong college preparatory program in grades 7-12. Our curriculum offers substantive courses in History, English, Mathematics, Science, and Foreign Language through the advanced level in French, German, Latin, and Spanish. In addition, Advanced Placement classes are available in Calculus, Chemistry, Biology, Physics, French, Spanish, Latin, English, English Literature and Composition, American History, Modern European History, and Political Science. Our academic offerings are supplemented by opportunities to participate on our award winning debate team, our very popular interscholastic sports teams or our strong studio arts program. Our small class size, about 13.5 students in the high school, allows for effective monitoring and exciting interaction between faculty and students. Our rigorous graduation requirements enable a student to assemble an academic program that enriches college opportunities. Our college counseling program assists students in translating their academic background and interests into realistic and exciting college placement. size • Excellent teachers • Individual attention • Winner of Excellence m Education Award. ST. MARK'S ROWLAND HALL SCHCXJL 801 I 355,7485 GIRL SCOUTS OF THE U.S.A. UT AH GIRL SCOUT COUNCIL The Girl Scouts of the U.S.A. are celebrating their 75th anniversary this year! Reflecting on the achievements of the Girl Scout movement over the past 75 years, we are proud of how the movement has adapted to the needs of each generation of girls. Who helped guide those girls as they explored their world over the past three-quarters of a century? Girl Scout volunteers. Without a doubt, the nation's 600,000-plus Girl Scout volunteers are the driving force behind the Girl Scout movement. Volunteers helped Girl Scouting change to meet the demands of today's world. Gone are the days of Laundress and Nurse proficiency badges. Now, Technology, Healthy Living, and Communication badges challenge the initiative of today's Girl Scout. You remember your Girl Scouting days learning about camping, careers, different cultures ... and of course, those wonderful, gooey S'mores. Your experience in Girl Scouting probably made a big difference in your life. We're proud of what our alumnae have become. Many are judges, scientists, musicians, actresses ... the list is endless. We want to know where you are and what you're doing in your life. Did - Girl Scouting make a difference? 26 NETWORK/AUGUST 1987 And wouldn't you want to share the same opportunities with today's Girl Scouts? We're looking for volunteers to be leaders, committee members and role models for the thousands of girls who are Utah's Girl Scouts. You can impact their lives. Call the Utah Girl Scout Council at 486-7145 to volunteer your help and time. GIRLSCOUTS The Girl Scout program has changed and so have today's volunteers. The number • of nuclear families has dropped over the past 20 years and Girl Scouting cannot depend merely on the traditional housewife as the mainstay of their volunteer corps. We have teachers, businesswomen, doctors, engineers, and many other professional women who join forces with our traditional volunteers to provide well-rounded role models for Girl Scouts. In addition to the job of a troop leader, there are a multitude of volunteer opportunities in Girl Scouting! Some positions involve working with girls: others are adult support volunteer opportunities. For example, volunteers help with fund raising, public relations, training, recruiting, property management, corporate management, and speakers' bureaus. A variety of volunteers with different talents are always a prized commodity in Girl Scouting. So don't hesitate, you have so much to offer ... both you and the girls you help will be winners when you become a Girl Scout volunteer. Were you a Girl Scout? We want to know what our alumnae are doing. Even if you weren't a Girl Scout in Utah, we would like to know about your years in Girl Scouting. Where and when were you a Girl Scout? What experiences do you remember? Did Girl Scouting affect your life? What are you doing now? Drop us a line at the Utah Girl Scout Council, 2386 East 2760 South, Salt Lake City, UT 84109. We will add the information we receive to our 75th Anniversary Memory Book. by Carol A. Wilson DIVORCE AND THE NEW TAX LAW J The New Tax Law, the Child tax deductions and, as a result, an Support Enforcement Act of 1985, and increase in the after tax net income. the increasing use of mediation in The elimination of tax shelter losses divorce settlements are three areas means less money is now available to where changes are occurring that may the wife and children. benefit you or someone close to you. Lower marginal tax rates also All who have been divorced or are reduce the appeal of home mortgage contemplating divorce should take a payments as a deduction. Husbands minute to review their personal will not want to keep a home for its situation to see if this New Tax Law can value as a tax deduction. The home is benefit or hinder them and perhaps likely to be a bargaining chip that may take some appropriate action to be exchanged for alimony or kept in minimize the effect. exchange for a specific return when The New Tax Law has, at first the home is sold. If the home is sold and glance, not specifically addressed the wife does not purchase another divorce settlements. Like all new laws, within two years, the proceeds from however, ramifications and the sale are taxed in a higher bracket. implications of these new laws will On the other hand, personal take time to be felt. exemptions will carry more punch. A spouse who pays alimony Children's exemptions for 1987 are ( though it is seldom awarded anymore) $1,900, up from $1,080 in 1986. This and child support, (which is awarded amount will increase by $50 a year for but paid only 30 percent of the time) 1988 and 1989. Exemptions for most often the husband, can deduct the dependents may now prove so former, but not the latter, on his/her desirable that some parents will trade tax return. The spouse who receives exemptions for increased child these payments (usually the wife) must support. In a three-child family, for declare it as taxable income. This part example, the exemptions will be worth of the tax law has not been changed. $6,000 a year in 1989. (Over a certain However, with the New Tax Law's income level, personal exemptions can lower marginal tax rates, the individual no longer be written off.) making alimony and child support Dependency exemptions for payments is likely to have less children of divorced or separated disposable income in the eyes of the parents go to the custodial parent, judge making the settlement. In the unless there's a written agreement to past, tax shelters caused an increase in the contrary. If a wife signs a form #8332, passing exemptions to the chair of a Child Support Task Force ex-spouse, she should only sign it for which is presently identifying one year at a time. This gives her the weaknesses in this schedule. Kimball leverage to make sure her payments expects to have a more fair and from her ex-spouse are received. If equitable schedule in October. they are not, she may claim the Those needing an increase in child exemption the next year. support, can go to the Office of Meanwhile, a second Federal law, Recovery S,e rvices where divorce court the Child Support Enforcement Act, orders can be modified at no expense. which took effect in 1985, gives states This offers struggling mothers an until October 1 of this year to establish economical alternative to going back a standardized method for setting to court when an ex-spouse's income child-support awards and programs to increases or the children's needs rigorously enforce payment. As states increase. Everyone is eligible begin to put this Act into effect, regardless of income. Last year this women, who usually retain custody of office processed 15,000 cases of the children, stand a better chance of non-welfare child support. :receiving the money due them from In another facet of divorce delinquent husbands. settlements, mediation to structure Under the Child Support these settlements ( see network, Enforcement Act, each state is "Practical Partings," July 1987) can required to fund staff and enforcement save time and money for the divorcing activities. A delinquent husband can couple. Unsolved issues can be have his wages withheld or a state tax discussed with a mediator who is refund committed to child support. A charging $70 per hour rather than with lien can be put on real estate or two lawyers who are each charging personal property, and the credit $100 per hour. The lawyer and :mancial bureau notified of overdue payments. planner should review the agreement In the case of bankruptcy, child reached after the mediation, and the support payments are a priority second divorce can proceed more rapidly frmu only to federal income tax payments. that agreement date.I Here in Utah, Kimball Krantz from the State Office of Recovery Services, states that Utah has had a Uniform Carol A. Wilson i,s a certified financial Sch~dule in place for the past one and one-half years. Jud e Judith Billin ::iS planner· and a registered investment Announcin g . .. LADIES DAY catherine patillo Every Monday 20%OFF l Celebrate Salt Lake's most delectable cookies. Located at 865 East 900 South,down the alley east of Pasta Mulino's. 359-8938. Receptions and parties, too. Conceptual Design with a focus on the specific marketing needs of your Business. "THE ORGANIZERS" Including: • Mail Order Lists • Ads • Flyers • Marketing Prospectus • Facility/Service Brochures • Invitations/ Announcements • Corporate Identity Systems • Packaging • Architectural/ Exhibit Graphics • Signage (systems and designed) • Self-promotional Call for a free. personal consultation. 485-2288 • Complete Office Procedures • Prospect Referral Lists • General Computerized Accounting Any Apparel Item 50%OFF Draperies Look for our new locations beginning in August • General Advertising • Telephone Messages Taken and Forwarded • Appointments Taken and Set • Cold Calling "Let us keep your small business organized." Jackie Maxwell 964-0354 Continental Cleaners 902 South 900 East 363-4448 JoAnn Tsu Tsui 262-4949 AUGUST 1987/NETWORK 27 Women's Index listings are paid advertising. One phone call will arrange your listing. ACCO( JNTANTS HOPPENSTEADT, SONDRA, CPA, Accounting, tax service, Hansen, Barnett & Maxwell, 345 East Broadway, Salt Lake City, UT 84111. . .. [phone] KLEIN, WESLEE ANNE, CPA, Tax, accounting, and business planning, Haynee & Company, 1785 West 2300 South, Saltlake City, UT84119 .................. [phone] MOYES, ELVA, MERRILLJOHNS,Accountant/Tax Counselor, Accounting Plus, (801} 262-3039 1279 Darby Circle, Salt Lake City, Utah 84117. . . . {80f) 266-2726 STATEN, TONE G,CPA, Tax, accounting and business consulting, 1696 East 6450 South, Saltlake City, Utah 8412 l . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [phone] WICKENS, MARGARET, CPA, Tax and small business specialist, Tanner & Co., 376 East400 South, Suite 200 Salt Lake City, Utah 84111 . . ..... [phone] ADVERTISING SfEQAL TIES JOYCE FLOWER.Sale representative, Cribb ins Advertising Specialties and business gifts, Ogden . . . [phone] ANVQlJFS ANTOINETTE'S, Merle Allred, Owner, antique jewelry and collectibles, 251 South State (in the Antique Mall), Saltlake City, Utah 84111. . . ........... . [phone] ARTCLASSES FORSTER, PAUL PETER, Classes in painting, 12100 South 700 West, Draper, Utah, 84020. A program structured to ind1v1dual needs. A fun study involving hard work, introspection, and discovery Classes in advanced, intermediate and beginning painting will be held on Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday afternoons or evenings. [phone] ART GAL t FRIFS PHILLIPS GALLERY, Art consultants• Michelle Sweet, Mary Behrens, Carolyn Person, Rosemary Holt, Mary Watson, 444 East Second South, Salt Lake City, Utah 84111. . ...... [phone] Exh1b1ting reg1.onal and Utah artists. Each month our main gallery features one artist while our downstairs gallery has a rotating group exh1b1t CONSULTATION FOR CORPORATE OR PRIVATE COLLECTIONS. HOURS. TUESDAYTOFRIDAY, 10a.m to6.00p.m., SATURDAY, 10a.m to4 p.m AT1QRNEYS BARKING, JUDY 0., General practice, wills, trusts, probate, Kelly G. Cardon & Associates, 427 27th Street, Ogden, Utah 84401 . . ......... . ....... [phone] MARELIUS, SUZANNE, General practice, litigation, small business, domestic law, Littlefield & Peterson, 426 South 500 East, Salt Lake City, Utah 84102 ........... [phone] SADLER & CLEARY, Cindy Morris Sadler, wills and estate planning; Maureen L Cleary, health-related law, 56 East Broadway, Suite 600, Salt Lake City, Utah 84111 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [phone] Al/TQMQBILE SERVICES CARLESON CADILLAC COMPANY, INC, Therese Clement, sales, 1070 South Main Street, Saltlake City, Utah 8410 l ...... [phone] CLINE'S MAZDA NISSAN, Eileen Cornwall, sales, 4600 South State, Salt Lake City, Utah 84107. . . . . .. . ... ... [phone] SCHNEIDER AUTO KAROSSERIE BODY AND PAINT, Uncompromisingforeign body repair, Margrit Atherton, co-owner, 1180 South 400 West, Salt Lake City, Utah8410l . . . [phone] BOOKSTORES THE BOOK VAULT, Crossroads Plaza, 50 South Main, Salt Lake City, Utah 84144 ... [phone] A unique general bookstore, we offer discounted best sellers and a wide range of good books-including Women's and Western Americana. Located at Crossroads Plaza, we welcome special orders and boast of our quarterly newsletter. A WOMAN'S PLACE, Sally Smith, owner, 1615 Foothill Drive, Salt Lake City, Utah 84108. . . [phone] Books by, about, and for women (and children). Daily luncheon en tree, classic women's music, art by local women, silver jewelry, wearable weaving, cards, and workshops in writing, dreams, self esteem, spirituality and food issues. THE CHILDREN'S HOUR, Diane Etherington, owner, 962½ East 900 South, Salt Lake City, Utah 84105 and [phone] 6083 South Highland Dr., Holladay, Utah 84121 . . .... [phone] Wonderful children's books. Diane will help you choose the perfect book for you and your friendsinyourhome, orvisitherstore 70a.m to6p.m daily Toysarethenewestadditionat the Holladay store. Hours: 70a.m to6p.m Mon-Sat. THE KING'S ENGLISH, Betsy Burton, owner, 1511 South 1500 East, Salt Lake City, Utah 84105. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [phone] The King's English has a delightful stock of "good books" Fiction, all types of non-fiction, women's books, mysteries (over 2,000), children's books . . even books on sale. 532-6095 today. SUSAN'S BOOKS & CARDS, Susan Kauffmann, owner, 1894 West 5400 South, Salt Lake City, Utah 84118. . . . ..... [phone] Westside Location. A contemporary bookstore featuring Hallmark cards and a rental library of current hardback bestsellers. We carry a wide selection of books for children and adults. Join our Baker's Dozen Paperback Book Club-We also make Xerox copies. BUSINESS SERVICES JORDAN QUEEN RIVERBOAT RESTAURANT, Chris Grabel, Marketing Director, 4393 Riverboat Road, Salt Lake City, Utah 84123 . [phone] Business meetings, seminars and banquets This uncommon setting will add life to your next meeting. Last year over 730 groups used our facilities. Contact Chris Gravel or Fay Gagon. WASATCH FRONT ENTERPRISE CENTER, 254 West400 South, Salt Lake City, Utah 84 101. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [phone] Assisting Entrepreneurs in new business ventures, the Center offers counseling in Business Planning and Small Business Management, assessment of Entrepreneunal Skills, and a Referral Network of Business Professionals. Sponsored as a public service by the Private Industry Council. CAREER col JNSEL ING CAREERCATALYSTEvans, Sarah Trembley, M.S. Ed., resumes and career consultations for individuals, groups, and businesses, Salt Lake City, Utah 84010 .. [phone] CENTER FOR ADULT LEARNING AND CAREER CHANGE, University of Utah, DCE, 1175 Annex, Salt Lake City, Utah 84112 . . ...... .... .. [phone] Our professional staff of counselors can help pave the way of adults in transition. Whether you choose career counseling, resume workshops, one day seminars, evenings or weekend courses - there's a route that's right for you PHOENIX INSTITUTE, 1800 South WestTemple, Suite 211, Salt Lake City, Utah 84 11 5. . . . . . . [phone] CATERING AND PARTIES AUNT KATE'S, Wendy MacDonald, owner. . ... [phone] Formerly Wendy's Catenng, has expanded all catenng services and and has opened a restaurant and cooking school. No catered affair 1s too small. Every.th mg mdividually made espeoally for you CUISINE UNLIMITED, Maxine Turner, Owner, 4691 Deer Creek Road, Salt Lake [phone] City, Utah 84124. . .. {801) 277-6224 ROYAL PARTY SERVICE, Jeannie Walton, owner, "We bring the Party to You'.' .... [phone] Complete party arrangements for all business or sooal occasions.· Catenng, Bartend1ng, . Invitations, Entertainment, Decorating, Clean-up, and we'll even help you select the location. Creative, innovative, personalized service for parties of two or 2,000. CHILD CARE PROFESSIONAL CHILD CARE ASSOC. OF UTAH, Linda Geigle, president, a free referral service, 5558 Waldenwood Drive, Murray, Utah 84123. . ..... [phone] or call Bonnie Parsons . . [phone] ABOVE IT ALL, INFANT CARE PROVIDERS, INC., Marilee Reynolds, R.N, Owner director, 1701 South 900 East, Saltlake City, Utah 84105 . . [phone] CHILD CARE CONNECTION, Brenda Collard, free information and referral for child care, 576 East South Temple, Salt Lake City, Utah 84102 . . . ... . [phone] CLOTHING RHODES, BRENDA, Seamstress, office or home service on custom sewing or alterations, 2526 East Campus Drive, Salt Lake City, Utah.84121 . . . . [phone] CHIROPRACTOR BACH CHIROPRACTIC OFFICES, Dr. Barbara Bach, R.N, D.C., 507 East 1700 South, Suite B, Salt Lake City, Utah 84105. . . [phone] COMfl/TFB AND COMMUNJcATJQNS SEARS BUSINESS SYSTEMS CENTER, Contact Marla Boyd, 118 East 200 South, Salt Lake City, Utah 84111 . . . .. [phone] We speoalize in IBN, AT&T, Compaq, and Epson computer systems. AT&T Merline and Trillium Communication systems. Call Today for a solution-onented busmess analysis. CONFERENCE PIANNJNG AND TQlJR SERVICES MCQUARRIE/LEE ASSOCIATES, ONLY IN UTAH!, Pamela McQuarrie and Evelyn Lee, specialized tours and meeting arrangements, P.O. Box 17701, Salt Lake City, Utah 84117. . . [phone] DENTISTS AND DENTAL PROGRAMS KOSMAS, LOLA, O.O.S., general dentistry, family practice, cosmetic dentistry, 3920 South 1100 East, Salt Lake City, Utah 84124 . . . [phone] VANDE MERWE, KATHLEEN McCOMBS, O.O.S., general dentistry, cosmetic dentistry 460 South 400 East, Bountiful, Utah 84010. . . .. [phone] the 4 f rarner Yourself D01t BOOKS ON FEMINIST SPIRITUALITY Amot19 Other Unusual Tfiit19s s. * 1649 1100 £. 484-4400 Parki119 in Rear Ca[[ For Hours 28 NETWORK/ AUGUST 1987 q •AD<l• ustom faffiillg 2160 Highland Drive Salt Lake City, Utah 84106 466-5151 Judith Christensen-Owner DIVORCE MFDIATJON WESTERN ARBITRATION ASSOCIATION, 2480 South Main Street, Suite 210, Salt . ........................ [phone] Lake City, Utah 84102 . EMPLOYMENT SERVICES DOMESTIC LIAISONS, UNLIMITED, Marna L. Martin, President, 2476 West Dutch [phone] Draw, Salt Lake City, Utah 84119. . . . . . . . . . . A screening and exclusive nanny placement service for women of all ages who want to employ their skills and experience with children. We custom-match you to pre-screened families who would like a minimum of 1-year commitment in the New York area. TEMPORARY RESOURCES, Marilyn B. Cheadle, owner, manager, 220 East 3900 South, Suite 5, Salt Lake City, Utah 84107 ................................. [phone] YOUR JOB CONNECTION-FOR EMPLOYERS AND EMPLOYEES, Sue Goldsmith, 1399 South 700 East, Salt Lake City, Utah 84105 ................ . . [phone] FXFRCISF PHYSICAL CONDITIONING BODYLIGHT CENTER FOR ENERGY AND MEMORY, 740 South 300 West, Studio. [phone] ............. .............. SaltLakeCity84101. Advanced fitness program geared to create independent, powerful, beautiful and healthy bodies. Once mastered, mmutes daily tn privacy ofoffice will increase energy and caloric burn, includmg spot reducing. Private Bodycoach. Couples welcome. (By appointment.) CHRYSALIS BODY DEVELOPMENT! Kathleen Pardee, proprietor, 401 East900 South, Salt Lake City, Utah 84111. ........................ .. ............. [phone] Weightlifting is a perfect tool to tone and slenderize, to build a more curvaceous body, and to mcrease energy and endurance. All ages, levels of fitness welcome. Workouts are personalized. FINANCLAL SERVICES(CONSl/LTANTS BJC&ASSOCIATES, L1nda S Jensen, MargyM. Campbell, financial planners, . . [phone] 1399 South 700 East, SL.:1te 5, Salt Lake City, Utah 84105. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Member lnternat1ona1 Assooat,on of Financial Planners. Complete financial planning services . personal c.'lC busmess analysis, cash flow management, estate planning, IRAs and KEOGHs, mutual 'Lnds. tax advantaged investments, annuities, insurance - full insurance products Specializing in financial seminars at your place of business. EAGLE NATIONAL MORTGAGE, DeLauna Lucchetti, 4700 South 900 East, Ivy Place Mall, Bldg# 1, Suite 9D, Salt Lake City, Utah 84117. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [phone] IDS FINANCIAL SERVICES, An American Express Company, Mary Lee Pierce and Kathy Jones-Price, 6925 South Union Park Center, Suite 450, 84047 .... ·... . .... [phone] Complete business and personal financial planning for a fee as well as a full line of financial service products including mutual funds, insurance, annuities, certificates, and limited partnerships. Available for seminars. FIRST UNION MORTGAGE CORPORATION, Sam Anderson, Monica Alarcon, 7090 South Union Park Avenue, Suite 260, Midvale, Utah 84047............... [phone] Second mortgage money for home improvements, debt consolidation, education, investment, a special trip, business ventures. Excellent rates. Call for details. (80 1) 364-775 1 NORTON, ADA B.,Equity qualified agent. Equitable Financial Services, 420 East South Temple, 5th Floor, Salt Lake City, Utah 84110 .. . ........... . [phone] WILSON, CAROLA., certified financial planner, "fee only" planning (sells no products) for retirement, divorce, college, insurance, and investment needs, 1027 . .......... . ..... [phone] East South Temple, Salt Lake City, Utah 84102 . FLORISTS HYLAND FLORAL, Kathy Sorensen, owner, a full service florist, 3995 South . [phone] Redwood Road, Salt Lake City, Utah 84123. STADIUM GARDENS, Joann Colovos, manager, 620 East 100 South, Salt Lake City, . ....... [phone] Utah 84102. .!iJ£IS. LEGENDS, Proprietors: Lezlee and Ray Spilsbury, Linda Lyman, James Bluth, Shellagh Gutke, 2'50 South 1300 East, Salt Lake City, Utah 84102 . . [phone] For mythic greeting cards, candles, swords, banners, mythic statuary and art, pewter miniatures and collector quality crystals. We will fea·ture original cotton and silk gowns, robes, and frolic-wear by designer Linda Lyman and original fantasy jewelry by designer James Bluth. l1RAPHIC DESIGN DENI CHRISTIAN, Mixed-media artist, 1150 Charlton Avenue, Salt Lake City, Utah 84 106. . Mixed-media sculpture, masks, hand creatures and other 3-0 constructions a specialty. Also design and production of logos, brochures, stationary, posters and most other business and personal promo pieces. Clear, clean presentations. The sophisticated and the crazed both appreciated. (801 )484-7456 HANDWR{VNG ANAL '(SIS AMERICAN WRITS, Frances Schroen, handwriting examiner, handwriting and printing identification, altered writing and forgery detection, P 0. Box 2181, . .... [phone] ...................... Sandy, Utah 84091. HEALTH CL (JBS ALTA CANYON SPORTS CENTER, 9565 South Highland Drive, Salt Lake City, Utah [phone] 84092. Recreation for families, singles, children and senior citizens. 50-meter outdoor heated pool, aerobics (coed, senior citizens, teens and ktdsJ, aquaose, tennis, racquetball, sand volleyball, wallyball, preschocl, nursery, tumbling. "AdultOnly"weightroom, sauna and whirlpool Fee use faolity or memberships. HEAL TH SERVICES ATWOOD, LYNNE, Certified nurse midwife, Bryner Clinic, 745 East 300 South, Salt . ... . ......•...... [phone] Lake City, Utah 84102. . BIRTHCARE HEALTHCARE, 5282 South 320 West, Suite D 180, Salt Lake City, Utah . ............... [phone] 84123. THE BRYNER CLINIC NURSE-MIDWIFERY SERVICE,Deanne Williams, CNM, Lynne Atwood, CNM, Angela Deneris, CNM, 745 East 300 South/6100 South 300 [phone] East, Salt Lake City, Murray .................................. ........... [phone] The Nurse-Midwifery Service offers Well-Woman care includmg. pregnancy testmg, routine breast and pelvic exams, pap smears, pre-conceptual counseling. Birthing Care mcludes: comprehensive prenatal care, postpartum care, individualized birthing experience at LOS Hospital, obstetrical consultation and referral. CHILDREN'S HOUSECALL MEDICAL SERVICES, Amy Cutting, Rn, MS, Nurse Practitioner, James Mumford, M.D., 5770 South 250 East, Suite 330, Murray, Utah (801)262-SICK .................... .......................... 84107. COMMUNITY NURSING SERVICE-HOSPICE OF SALT LAKE, 1370 South West . ........... [phone] Temple, Salt Lake City, Utah 84115 . . Home health care for the ill, injured and terminally ill. Nurses, aides and other health professionals provide care to the elderly, adults, children and newborns. (;OTTONWOOD HOSPITAL CENTER FOR WOMEN'S HEALTH, 5770 South 300 . ............ [phone] East, Murray, Utah 84107. . . . Complete women's health services, including . birthing center, physician referral, breast short stay services, medical self-exam, mammography, osteoporosis screening, after hours surgery, counseling, education, fitnessandweightcontrol. Full service hospital, 24hourhelp and information line. COTTONWOOD HOSPITAL MEDICAL CENTER 5770 South 300 East, Murray, Utah 84107. EATING DISORDERS UNIT, . .. [phone] Both out-patient and in-patient comprehensive treatment of anorexia and bulimia. Thorough medical and psychological evaluation, individual, family, and group therapy, nutritional counseling, fitness, and psychoeducational lectures in a supportive, home-like settmg. Excellent follow-up Call for a free consultation. INFORMED BIRTHING.Judy Rodriguez, midwife, excellent home-birth care, 12129 . . . ........ [phone] South 2160West, Riverton, Utah 84065.. . . . . . . . . INTERMOUNTAIN WOMEN'S CENTER AT LDS HOSPITAL, Eighth Avenue and C . .................. [phone] Street, Salt Lake City, Utah 84143.. Resource and referral for all women's health services, including: mammography screening, individual and family counseling, family-centered maternity; reconstructive surgery; physioan referral; wellness programs; gynecologic cancer; and classes on prenatal care, parentmg, and women ·s health issues. KIDS LINE - COTTONWOOD HOSPITAL CENTER FOR WOMEN'S HEALTH, . .... (801)261-KIDS 5770 South 300 East, Murray, Utah 84107.. A 24-hour hot line for children who may be at home alone. KIDS LINE ts available as a free community resource for children to call when they fell they need reassurance, help m making dectsions about their situation, or just to ask questions. OSTEOPOROSIS PROGRAM - COTTONWOOD HOSPITAL CENTER FOR WOMEN'S HEALTH, 5770 South 300 East, Murray, Utah 84107 .............. [phone] A comprehensive educational and screening program for individuals who may be at nsk for this cnppling condition. Our cost efficient program includes a personal risk profile conducted by a qualified couselor A bone density scan is available to the individual who may benefit from such a test. Call the center for dates, times and cost information. PIONEER VALLEY HOSPITAL WOMEN'S SERVICES, Pioneer Valley Hospital, 3460 South Pioneer Parkway, West Valley City, Utah 84120 ........................ l801) 968-9061 ) 322,.557' PLANNED PARENTHOOD, 70 South 900 Eas , Salt lake Ci , Utah 841-02 . RAPE CRISIS CENTER, INC. 2035 South 1300 East, Salt Lake City, Utah 84105 . . . [phone] RESOLVE OF UTAH, infertility counseling, P.O. Box 7531, Salt Lake City, Utah . ... [phone] 84107-0531. THE SALT LAKE RISK REDUCTION CLINIC, Dr. Lilly Ramphal, Family Practice with specialty in weight control, 2180 East 4500 South, Suite 120, Salt Lake City, Utah [phone] 84117. . ..... [phone] UTAH PMS CENTER, 501 Chipita Way, Saltlake City, Utah 84108. WASATCH CANYONS HOSPITAL, 5770 South 1500West, Salt Lake City, Utah . ... [phone] 84123. Wasatch Canyons Hospital provides a full range of psychiatric and chemical dependency treatment programs. Call for more information. WASATCH WOMEN'S CENTER FOR REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH, Sandra Bagley, ..... [phone] • 3450 Highland Drive, Suite 102, Salt Lake City, Utah 84106,. HQllSEKEFPING SERVICES ADELE'S HOUSEKEEPING, Valena Ottley, Owner, 7109 Highland Drive# 102B, . [phone] • Salt Lake City, Utah 84121 . . . [phone] 4608 South 3900 West, Roy, Utah, 84067. . ...... [phone] EFFICIENCY, Ellen Blosch, owner. Spring cleaning solutions. ORGANIZATION! A place for everything and everything 1n its place. Guaranteed thorough cleaning, weekly, bi-weekly or monthly. Insured, bonded. [phone] THE FINER TOUCH, Linda Norton, owner, Sandy, Utah 84070. . Walls, windows, floors, friges, ovens, and much more are our favorite things to clean, so you will have more time for your favorite things' Weekly, semi-monthly and monthly appointments. [phone] MERRY MAIDS.Celeste Johnson, Owner, South of 1-80,Evelyn Rudman, Owner, . [phone] North of 1-80 & Davis County . RENT A MOM, Linda Wanner, 2225 East Murray Holiday Road #201, Salt Lake City [phone] Utah, 84117. TOP HAT CLEANING, Debbie Kehl, Owner, 2671 East Woodchuck Way, Sandy, [phone] Utah 84092. . . Top Hat Cleaning, the team that makes the visible difference Specializing in residential and or 943-4368 small offices. No 10b too big or too small. Make that visible d,ffernce. Call today 969-0830 WOMEN'S WORK, Peggy Bon and Myrna Wolf, co-owners, a personalized house cleaning service specializing in efficiency and dependability since 1977, Salt Lake . . [phone] City, Utah . INDEPENDENT SCHOOL S WATERFORD SCHOOL, Jeanne Tolboe, director of admissions, 1480 East 9400 South, Sandy, Utah 84092. . . . [phone] Pre-school through Class V Quality liberal arts curriculum enhanced by computer learning systems. Expenenced faculty, fully equipped science, art, and photography labs, small classes and extended day program. REALMS OF INQUIRY, Connie Jones K-6, Ross Jones 7-12, 1838 South 1500 East, (801)467~5911 . [phone] Salt Lake City, Utah 84105 . Grades K- 72. Strong liberal arts curriculum based on learning through experience. Class size 741 7. lntenstve outdoor activities. People are important here. Create in your child a higher sense of the possible ROWLAND HALL- ST. MARK'S SCHOOL, 205 First Avenue, Salt Lake City, Utah [phone] 355-7494 84103. Rowland Hall - St. Mark's School, grades pre-school through 72th. Excellent teachers, small Education classes, and emphasis on liberal arts. Rectpient of the national ''Excellence in Award." Foradm,s:;ion information, call355-7458(PK-6)or 355-7494(7-12) AUGUST 1987/NETWORK 29 INSl/RANCE BECK, JULIE M. New England Mutua l Life Insurance Co ., 349 South 200 East, Su ite 600 , Salt Lake City, Utah 84111 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. [phone] JOHNSON, DELJEAN, Owner agent, Dimension Insurance, 2040 East4800 South , Suite 303 , Saltlake City, Utah 84117 . . [phone] LONG-PACE, CHARLENE, Agent, State Farm Insurance, auto, home, business, life, and health, 2025 East 9400 South , Sandy, Utah 84092. . . [phone] Salt Lake line [phone] SMITH, f;IOLL Y, Insurance agent, John Smith Insurance Agency, 155 South 300 [phone] West, Suite 102, Saltlake City, Utah 8410 l . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [phone] INTERIOR DESIGN CONTRACT CARPETS, CABINETS & INTERIORS, INC., Phyllis Fleming, Julie Maryy, Lori Nichols, Interior Designers, 25 East 7200 South, Midvale, Utah 84070 . . . . .. [phone] DESIGN CONNECTION, Kara Wolcott, 925 East Executive Park Drive (5375 S.), Suite H, Salt Lake City, UT 84117. . [phone] LABRETT INTERIORS, Loretta G. Falvo, Brent L. Moosman, co-owners, 2182 Highland Drive, Salt Lake City, Utah 84106 . . ... . [phone] LAURA'S INTERIORS,70West400 South, Saltlake City, Utah 84101. . ....... (801) 534--1579 Need a fresh, new look? Call Laura of Laura 's Interiors. Freeestimates 1Affordable pnces on carpet! drapes! and all your office or home design needs. NATIONAL COUNCIL OF JEWISH WOMEN, Marsha Cord , 3 173 Hollyhock Hill, Sa lt La ke City, Utah 84121 . . . [phone] OLDER WOMEN'S LEAGUE (OWL), lvanne Salazar, president, 322 East 300 South , Salt Lake City, Utah 84111 . . . .... . ........ [phone] PHOENIX INSTITUTE, Kathy Hurd, 1800 South WestTemple, Suite 211, Salt Lake City, Utah 84115. . (801)484--2882 PROFESSIONAL SECRETARIES INTERNATIONAL, Salt-Ute Chapter, Carma Stringer, president, PO Box 2188, Salt Lake City, Utah 84110. .. [phone] PROFESSIONAL SECRETARIES INTERNATIONAL, Wasatch Chapter, Dolores (801 )625-2001 Harmon, 256 Virginia Avenue, Ogden, Utah 84404 . . . [phone] SALT LAKE BUSINESS AND PROFESSIONAL WOMEN (BPW), Joyce Reed, president, 1149 South 1500 East, Saltlake City, Utah 84105 . . . ....... . .. [phone] SINGLE PARENT NEWS, Utah Issues, 231 East 100 South, Salt Lake City, Utah 84 111 . . . . [phone] START, Utah Issues, 231 East 100 South, Lower Level, Salt Lake City, Utah 84111 .. . [phone] UTAH ASSOCIATION OF WOMEN BUSINESS OWNERS, Carolyn Stephens, president, c/ o The Mail Room, 2261 Soute State, Salt Lake City, Utah 84115. . .. . (801) 534--3440 A support assoC1ation for women who own businesses or work independently w,th,n a business UTAH FEDERATION OF BUSINESS AND PROFESSIONAL WOMEN'S CLUBS, Chris Ivan is, public relations, 1339 East Sanders Road, Sandy, Utah 84092 .. ...... [phone] Also call (80 7) 57~ -3 739 MEN WHO Sl/PPORT NEJWORK'S INDEX BORGENICHT, LOU, M.D., Pediatrician, 850 East 300 South, Salt Lake City, Utah 84102. . . [phone] GOLDSMITH, STEVEN. Investment broker, Smith Barney, 170 South Main, Suite 1100, Saltlake City, Utah 84101. . . [phone] GOMBERG, BARRY, HAVAS, AND ASSOCIATES, Attorney, 2604 Madison Ave, Ogden, Utah 84401 . . .. . . . .............. . . . : ....... . ....... .. ........ [phone] Practice combines sensitive problem solving approach with tough advocacy when necessary Preferred areas of practice include non-adversarial d,vorces and other family m~d,at,ons, employee and civil rights cases including sex discrimination and sexual harassment, and personal injuries. HOLT, REED L., D.D.S., Dentist, 2681 East Parley's Way, Suite 207, Salt Lake City, Utah 84109. . . . . [phone] LOW COST AUTO REPAIR, Ben Fellows, Service Manager, 935 West North Temple, Salt Lake City, Utah 84116 .. . . . ......... . . .. . . . . . . .. . . ... . . . . . .. .. . .. . . [phone] MAXWELL, ALLEN, Handy-Man, 2935 West Hazel Nut Circle, Salt Lake City, Utah 84 118. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (801 )964-0354 Handy-Man . specializing in refrigeration and major appliances. Repair minor home repairs including painting, replacement of wmdows, upgradmg basements, fencmg and mmor electrical and plumbing repairs. Free estimates. Call Allen anytime. MC DONALD, KENT D., Individual, Family and Marital Counseling, Hypnotherapy, Workshops, 195 West 7200 South, Midvale, Utah 8404 7. . . .. . ....... . ....... [phone] PICARDI, MIKE, custom upholstery, Recovery Room, 233 South 600 West, Salt Lake City, Utah8410l ... .. .. ...... ... .... . .. . ... . .. .. ..... ... . . . . . . .. [phone] POWER, ROBERT (BOB), Owner, Rocky Mountain Transmission, 2650 South 300 West, Salt Lake City, Utah 84115 . [phone] SCOTSMAN'S BOAT REPAIR, Dennis McKelvie, boat repairer, 4195 South 500 West, #60, Murray, Utah 84123. . [phone] SUITOR, M. LEE, BA, B.Mus., M.M ., expert musical instruction, piano and organ. Studios in the Avenues and Sandy . . . . . . . . . [phone] Professional skills to enthuse beginners and give advanced students the help to analyze techn,cal problems and unfold the beauty of music. MOVING AND STORAGE EXEQ JTJVE REL OCATIQN SERVICE Heidi Brumbaugh, manager. 375 31st Street, Ogden, Utah 84401(801 )392-3920 UTAH GIRL SCOUT COUNCIL, Connee Gates, President, 2386 East 2760 South, Salt Lake City, Utah 84109. . ... (~01)486-71:45 UTAH MATH SCIENCE NETWORK, Mar,ilyn O'Dell, President, PO Box 8806, Salt Lake City, Utah 84108. . . .. .......... . [phone] \A/OMEN.' _ o neita Su~sion: president, _389 East 100 _s_ o_u_th'. Springville, \\i1~i:~i~~ A group of media professionals affiliated with the National Federation of Press Women, dedicated to encouraging high standards ofprofessionalism and coordinating efforts of national mterest to communicators. UTAH PROFESSIONAL SALES WOMEN ASSOCIATION, Sylvia Metos, membership chair, 4774 South Oxbow Circle, Apt 21, Salt Lake City, Utah 84123. . . [phone] . . .. [phone] WIBCO, Carol Browning, Chair, Salt Lake Area Chamber of Commerce, 175 East 400 South, Suite 600, Saltlake City, Utah 84111 .. . . .. ........ . . ... . . .. . .... . . . [phone] WOMEN IN COMMUNICATION, INC., Susen Sawatzki, president, P.O. Box 2162, Salt Lake City, Utah 84110-2162 . . [phone] WOMEN'S INFORMATION NETWORK, Judith Mitchell, membership chair, Salt Lake City, Utah . . [phone] WOMEN'S POLITICAL CAUCUS, Sandra Bagley, chair, PO Box 8745, Salt Lake City, Utah 84108.. .. . .... . . . .. . .... . . .... . .... .. .... .... . .. . ... . ........ . [phone] WOMEN'S RESOURCE CENTER, Susanne Millsaps, 293 Union Building, University of Utah , Salt Lake City, Utah 84112 . [phone] YWCA, Jane Langford, 322 East 300 South, Salt Lake City, Utah 8411_1 . . [phone] OfRCE FQlJ/fMENT SALT LAKE TYPEWRITER, Marilyn Sanders, Owner, 777 South State, Salt Lake City, Utah 84111. .... . ... . . . . .......... . .... . .. .. .. . .. . .. . . ... . ....... [phone] OGDEN & NORTHERN l /TAH . (801) 394--3077 GIRL SCOUT SERVICE CENTER, 134 East 4600 South , Ogden, Utah 84405 WOMEN IN MANAGEMENT, Contact Pat Mencimer, Ogden Area Chamber of Commerce, 2307 Washington Blvd, Ogden 84401 . . [phone] YWCA OF OGDEN/NORTHERN UTAH, Margo Horton, President. Gaye Littleton, Exec. Director. 505 27th Street, Ogden, Utah 84403. . (801) 394--9456 YWCA OF OGDEN/NORTHERN UTAH, Box Elder Center. Carolyn Krejci, . . [phone] Coordinator. 435 East 700 South, Suite 1, Brigham City, Utah 84302 . . OPTOMETRISTS ~ . SHEY A/CATHEY FLUTE AND GUITAR DUO, Sue Anne N. Sheya, Flautist, P.O. Box 81124, Saltlake City, Utah 84108 . ... . . .. . . ... . . ............ .... ...... . [phone] BENNETT, COLLEEN, O.D., General vision care, children 's vision and vision therapy, 849 East400South , SaltlakeCity, UT84102 . [phone] NETWORKS AND SERVICES CANYON ORIENTAL RUGS AND DHURRIES, Karen Anderson, Owner, 2000 East Emigration Canyon, Salt Lake City, Utah 84108. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . INTERNATIONAL TRAINING IN COMMUNICATION (TOASTMISTRESS), Lola Stuewe, 2467 Redondo Avenue, Saltlake City, Utah 84108 . . ... ... [phone] LEAGUE OF WOMEN VOTERS- SALT LAKE CITY AND UTAH STATE LEAGUE, 3804 Highland Drive, Suite 9, Saltlake City, Utah 84106 ... . ........ ...... . . . [phone] MURRAy CHAMBER WOMEN'S COUNCIL (MCWC), Loree Harpster, president, 262 - 1935, Angie Gregg, executive director, 5025 South State Street, Suite 104, Murray, Utah. . . . . ............... , .......... .. .... .... ....... .. .... [phone] NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF WOMEN IN CONSTRUCTION (NAWIC), Elizabeth McAndrew, president, P.O. Box 6004, Saltlake City, Utah 84106 . . . . .... (801)484--7587 ORJFNTAL Rl /Gs Oriental Rugs ,n a Beautiful Sett,ng select from : Dhumes, Chmese, Turkish, Persian, Ruman,an, Runners, Silks, Kelims. Home approval, consultation, pick up and delivery, appraisals, professional clean mg, repairs, and restorations by S1fa. We buy rugs. Free estimates Rentals. We ship any,1-:here in the U.S.A. [phone] PACKAGING AND SH(PPING THE MAIL ROOM, Carolyn Stephens, Owner, 2261 South State (Turn in at the bowling pin ), Sa lt Lake City, Utah 84115 . PERSQNNR SERVICES . . . [phone] PROFESSIONAL LEASING ASSOCIATES, INC. Lynda F. Riffle, CPA, 650 South Main Street, 120 1, Bountiful, Utah 84010. . . . . .. [phone] Do what you do best, let us do the rest ' Relieve yourself of the headaches of bemg an employer. Sta ff lea::,mg - we provide a complete benefi t package mcludmg health and d1sab,!1ty msurance, cafeteria plan and more Books Clothing Gift Items Pilot Supplies 30 NETWORK/ AUGUST 1987 for the AVIATOR PRECISION APPROACH SLC Executive Terminal 337 North 2370 West Salt Lake City • 596-1118 PIANO REfAIR!Tl /NING LEVITRE MARGO E.,Owner, LeVitre Piano Service, 827 North 435 East, Orem , Utah 84057. . . ... [phone] Registered tuner-techniC1an who can do any tun mg, regulatmg, or repair on pianos. Also repairs on stnnged nstruments and on accord,ans Appointments scheduled days and even,ngs anywhere along the Wasatch Front. PHYSICIANS BURKI, REGULA E., M.D., Gynecology & Obstetrics, Highland Plaza, Suite 302, 3450 Highland Drive, Salt Lake City, Utah 84106 . . . .. .. .. ... .. . ..... . . .. .... [phone] SpeC1ai1Z1ng ,n osteoporosis, hormone replacement therapy, bladder mcontmence and other problems related to menopause as well as pelvic and vagmal surgery. Also special interest m prov,dmg gynecological care to adolescent women, and family planning mcludmg tubal ligation. Also avada ble 1s general cancer screen mg and health mamtenance counselmg on diet and exerose wh,cr :s m accordance with the Amencan Cancer SoC1ety gwdelmes. SCHILERU, DACIA, M.D., Gynecology and Obstetrics, Cottonwood Medical Tower, Suite 240, 5770 South 250 East, Murray, Utah 84107 . . .... . ..... . ....... . . [phone] VACAVQN RENTAL s PLANTS LEAF TO LEAF, Dor.na Miller, Owner, 1231 East3300 South, Salt Lake City, Utah . .. .. . . ......... _ 84106. . Indoor/outdoor plants. Interior design and maintenance for home and business available. Cut flowers and arrangements upon request. Also, featuring unique gifts and custom ceramics. [phone]' PL ASVC Sl JRGFQNS UTAH SOCIETY OF PLASTIC AND RECONSTRUCTIVE SURGEONS, telephone information and referral, referral to board certified plastic surgeons throughout the state . Contact Utah State Medical Association, 540 East 500 South, Salt Lake City, . . [phone] Utah 84102. . REAL ESTATE BALL, GEORGIA, Broker, Ramsey Group, 2159 South 700 East, Suite 250, Salt Lake [phone] .............. City, Utah 84106. (BERGER) ARNOLD, KAY, owner, real estate broker, Kohagen/Berger Realtors, . .. ........ . . [phone] 1527 South 1500 East, Salt Lake City, Utah 84105 . CLOSING, ETC., Cir.dy A . Lund, Owner/Broker, 1242 Earl Way, Sandy, . . . .. .. . ..... [phone] Utah 84070. Professional ass,sta:xe for real estate attorneys and developers. We speoal,ze in hand/mg all ofthenecessarydeails Forexample: Package Preparation, Options, Financing, Buymgand Selling to name jus~a few. Call today' GUMP, MARJORIE 8., co-owner, Gump and Ayers Real Estate, 2120 South 1300 [phone] . . [phone] East, Salt Lake City, Utah 84106. WOLCOTT, LINDA, "Sales Agent of the Year-1986."The Ramsey Group, Real . .. [phone] Estate, 2159 South 700 East, Suite 250, Salt Lake City, Utah 84105 . JACK'S SHACKS, Park City, Utah% Dr. and Mrs. J. H. Wilson, Owners, 3409 Mile High Drive, Salt Lake City, Utah 84124. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Vacation Rentals in Park City. Beautiful new two bedroom, two bath, condo 's. Will accommodate six ,·:,th privacy. Most amenities. Three bedroom chalet, four bedroom home. Capaoty eight per ;,;n,t. Resort, historic town locations. Reasonable rates. (801 ) 2 78-2869 or 649-7142. [phone] VFTERINARIAN5 HOWELL, KATHY S. D.V.M., M.S., Southeast Alpine Veterinary Hospital, 10572 South 700 East, Sandy, Utah 84070 ............ .. . .. _.... _. ... . . _.... _.. . [phone] Small animal med,c:ne, surgery, and dentistry. By appointment Monday-Friday9a.m. -6 p.m., Saturday 9 a.m. -neon WAL {PAPERING THE HAPPY HANGERS, 900 South 770 West, Wood Cross, Utah 84087 .. .. . .... [phone] The Happy Hanger:;, eight years expenence hanging all types of wall-coverings. We do free measunng and btddmg anywhere on the Wasatch Front. We have excellent references and treatyourhome likcourown. Callevenmgs . Tnllis, 292-3228orSharon, 295-2758. Daytime call 292 -3228, lea, 2a message WRITING SERVICES WINSLOW'S EDITORIAL SERVICE, Edit, rese,:irch, word process, scholarly papers, . ..... .. .... [phone] manuscripts, proposa ls, Salt Lake City, UT . STONE, EILEEN, wr;ter, editor, researcher, 2142 South 1900 East, Salt Lake City, _Utah 84106. . . . . ..... . ..... . . .... . ......... . ... . ...... . . .... _. _.. [phone] RFSlJMF SERVICES PROGRESSIVE RESUME AND WRITING SERVICE, 424 East 500 South# 100 (M .O .N. Y Office Plaza), Salt Lake City, Utah 84 111 . 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Better Label "new ", and designer label " used", clothmg for the confident woman Consignors from Portland, Palm Springs, and Salt Lake City. 50% to 80% below retail prices. 0 TEL FPHQNE/AN5WERING SERVICES [phone] QUALITY ANSWERING SERVICE, Rebecca Anne Reed, owner, telephone . ...... [phone] answe rin g service, 445 East 200 South; Salt Lake City, Utah 84111. . If you miss your cal,'s, you 're losmg money. For only $45 per month, we will give and take messages for you f•om 7 a. m. to6 p.m. THERAPISTS BABSON, BARBARA, M SW, Licensed Cli nical Social Worker, individual, couple, famil y, and g roup ':heraphy, W estern States Family Clinic, 5 15 South 700 East, . .. [phone] Suite 3A, Salt La ke City, Utah 84102 . BADEN, RITA, L C.SW, Licensed Clinical Social W orker, 1578 Redondo Avenue, . .. [phone] Salt Lake City, Ut ah 84 105. Individual and mar:~al therapy. Speoai,zing m substance abuse and rela t1onsh1p1sexual add1ct1ons. Please call evenings. 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MAIER, DORTHEA, Ph .D., Clinica l psychologist for women and children, 989 East . [phone] 900 Sout h, Suite B 1, Salt Lake City, Utah 8 105 . MATTIS, NOEMI, Pl-i D , Licensed Psych ogist, feminist orientation, phone hou r . . [phone] 9-10 a.m ., 299 Federal Heights Circl , alt Lake City, Utah 84103. . P chotherapist : Individual, Couple, Fami ly and MCCOLLUM, LANELLE, D.S.W~, Group Therapy, Lesbian/ Gay Co nseling, 545 East4500 South, Suite E-260, Salt Lake City, Utah 84107... . .......................... .. ................. [phone] MENDELSOHN, MARCIA, Ph .D., Licensed Psychologist, Individual, Marriage, . . . [phone] Divorce, Women 's Issues, 5624 Indian Rock Road, Holladay, Utah 84117 . PLENK, AGNES, Ph.D., licensed psychologist, The Children's Center, 1855 Medical . . [phone] Circle, Salt Lake City, Utah 84112. TYLER, ANN, PH.D., licensed psychologist, licensed marriage and family therapist, . [phone] Family Support Center, 2003 Lake Street, Salt Lake City, Utah 84105 . . 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The Travelers lmrr c n1zat,on Cltntc provides world travelers with all currently recommended ,mmun,zat1ons, ,r •.:xr:1at1on to reduce the nsk of tllness while traveling, and a !1st of Engl1sn -speakmg ;::'iys,oans throughout the world rServrce of Holy Cross Hospital New Shops for you to discover. .. • Nightflight Comics • Ravis Travel • Fortune Restaurant • LeGrenier • Contempo Casuals • House of Fabrics Super Store • Pro Image •Wm.Zinke • 0 • And Coming In August .. • • Victoria's Secret • Red's Yogurt • Fajita Ole' • lmportars • The Stitchery • Der Nussknacker • Camp Beverly Hills • Christmas in Utah • Siematic • Salon Jeri L. 0 . 4800 South Highland Drive Monday- Friday 10 a.m. - 9 p.m. • Saturday 10 a.m. - 7 p.m. • AUGUST 1987/NETWORK 31 EPIPHANY Continued from page 23. The greatest surprise came when, after hours of discussion and proposals, and numerous conflicts, several hundred people did come to consensus. At the time, I was amazed that so many people, given the opportunity to exercise full tyranny of their opinions, could ever agree on anything, much less a political action which would, for some, involve civil disobedience and the risk of arrest. Participating in the consensus process many times since then, I have obseived that people are generally responsible, flexible, and trusting if they feel they're being heard and an effort is being made to meet their needs. I have seen how trust in the depth and sincerity of one person's conviction to block consensus can open the minds of hundreds. • Consensus requires more concentration, patience, and flexibility than any other form of group decision-making I know of. It also feels the most rewarding. Using the consensus process encourages acknowledgment, rather than denial, of conflict, and as a result, conflicts are more easily resolved rather than hidden. The goal is to agree, not to win. Success in the process requires time, effort, and practice for those of us who are used to making group decisions through hierarchy and majority rule. It requires trust, skilled listening, and an open mind. It is a way to practice peace. It is practice never wasted. What I'm just beginning to realize about this process is the value of the pain and frustration that comes from a lack of resolution. There are times when I become too impatient, closed, and discouraged to participate. But I · am learning that failure in this deliberate exercise in nonviolent conflict resolution can be the beginning of empathy for everyone else who fails to resolve the conflict in their lives or their relationships or their countries. For me, it is still difficult to make that connection. But I have glimpsed the incredible healing power of empathy, and I have no trouble feeling the connection between healing and peace. Participating in that action at the test site, I began to understand that the process of peace requires an active commitment to transform the obstacles to it. I believe that transformation happens through openness, honesty, trust, and individual empowerment. Beginning the study and application of principles of nonviolence in my daily life and participating in the consensus process have helped me to act on that belief. When I arrived at the test site on the day of the action, I abandoned my obseiver status and crossed the white line onto the test site. I chose to commit civil disobedience as a symbol of the withdrawal of my support for the testing of nuclear weapons and the continuation of the arms race as a means of conflict resolution. I risked arrest and imprisonment to raise my voice above the dull roar of powerlessness. A powerlessness I no longer accept. So, in the spirit of my friend, who opened my heart through sharing her experience, I pass on my Nini Rich is a news reporter at KUER and a freelance writer. 32 NETWORK/ AUGUST 1987 AUGUST SNOWBIRD MOUNTAINEERING CENTER Learn to rock climb. hike one of the surrounding peaks, take a mountain bike tour, enjoy an evening barbecue or go on a guided over-night backpacking trip. These are some of the choices offered at the new Mountaineering Center at Snowbird. For more information or to schedule an outdoor activity for you or a group, contact the Center at 521-6040 ext.4181. lWENTIETH-CENTURY DINOSAURS Sculptures by Jim Gary at Utah Museum of Natural History, U of U. Hours Monday through Saturaday from 9 30 to 5 30 p.m. Sunday 12 to 5 p.m Admission $2.00 Adults $1.00 children and U of U students. Continues through September 20. 1987 1-31 CHILDREN'S SUMMER DAY CAMP 2 UTAH SYMPHONY PERFORMANCE Monday through Friday, (except holidays). In con1unction with the Cliff Lodge Children ·s Center. a state-licensed facility, kids 6- 12 yers old will experience the natural environment of the Wasatch Mountains through walks and hikes among the wildflowers and historic areas.Tram rides. arts and crafts and swimming are included. Call the Cliff Lodge Children's Center for more information at 521-6040 ext. 5026. 4 00 p.m, $10, at the Snowbird Center Pavilion. Christopher Wilkins conducts; singer Michael Martin Murphy is the guest artist. His hits include Wildfire·. 2-5 WATERCOLOR WORKSHOP 9:00 a.m -4:00 p.m daily. $150. Co-sponsored by the Gallery at Snowbird and the Snowbird Arts and Entertainment Dept. The workshop includes two days of indoor classroom instruction and two days of outdoor instruction. A discount on lodging is available through Snowbird Central Reservations at 532-1700. For more information call 521-6040 ext 4080. 3 UAWBO SOCIAL 3 CELEBRATING YOURSELF Social and new member night at Dr. Janet Hamsberger, 5770 South 250 East, Murray, 630 p.m Call 534-3440 to reserve. Prospective members are especially encouraged to come 5-8 HERS/WEST CONFERENCE Higher Education Resource Services/INest Conference. Workshop topics include: "Self-Esteem Being the Best You are,·· "Physical Fitness - It's Role in Preventative Medicine," "Dietetics: Risk and Benefits," ·Total Fitness Health Assessment," "Empower Your Lifestyle," "Seek and Ye Shall Find: Self-Esteem, Energy and Power Working Together.·· Keynote speaker, August 6 at 8:30 a.m, Diane Tracy, "Woman and Health Risks." Dinner speaker, August 6 at 6 p.m. Elouise Bell, "Real Goddesses in All of Us." Held at Utah State University, Logan. Natural Resources Building Auditorium, Room 102. Toregistercall581-3475or750-1266. 7 RIRIE-WOODBURY DANCE COMPANY Workshops and performances at Snowbird. All performances begin at 7:00 p.m. and admission is $5. For more information at 521-6040 ext. 4150, Snowbird Institute. 7.8,9 FURNITURE EXHIBmON: "REDEANING TRADmON" 2:00 to 9:00 p.m., FREE each day in the Peruvian Room, Level 3 of the Snowbird Center. Presented by Interior Designer, Walter J. Cowie. For more information, Call Mr. Cowie at 322-5500. 7 UAF ANNUAL SUMMER PICNIC 7,8,9 1812OVERTURE 6:30 p.m. at Limbergrove, Jordan Pines, up Big Cottonwood Canyon. Prospective members of Utah Advertising Federation whole heartedly invited to attend. Call DeeAnn Budge at 355-9001 to reserve and for details. 9 MOUNTAIN BIKE RACE Snowbird K-Bear Mountain Bout. 9:00 a.m. All abilities. Co-sponsored by Snowbird Mountaineering and Wasatch Touring. $8.00entryfee. 9and15 UTAH SYMPHONY PERFORMANCE 10-14 ASSERTION PART II 4:00 p.m., $10, at the Snowbird Center Pavilion. Christopher Wilkins conducts these annual performances of the 1812 Overture with Baritone Peter Van de Graaff and the Mountain Men of the Wasatch with their cannons. 13-22 SHENANDOAH 14 UTAH PROFESSIONAL SALESWOMEN'S ASSOCIATION 14.21.28 STARPARTY 8:00 p.m., in the Peruvian Room. Snowbird Center. Then take the Tram to the top of Hidden Peak for a field session. Cost is $6 for adults and $3.50 for seniors (over62) and children (7 - 16). Dress warmly and bring binoculars. For more information call 521-6040 ext 4080. 15.16 MOUNTAIN PHOTOGRAPHY WORKSHOP Instructed by photographer John Telford. Come learn to improve your photographs. Cost of the workshop is $50, plus $1 0 for materials. For more information and registration at 521-6040 ext. 4080. 16 BALLET WEST WORKSHOP AND PERFORMANCE 4 00 p.m .. $10. Ballet West will present a two-day workshop for the public and non-professional ballet dancers. For more information call 521-6040 ext. 4150. 20 SEXUAL HARASSMENT CLASS SPYRO GYRA IN CONCERT 630 to 8 30 p.m at Phoenix Institute, 1800 South West Temple. For information call 484-2882. 20 21 STARPARTY 21 WIN SUMMER PICNIC 22 CHILDREN CENTER 22 GIRL SCOUT CELEBRATION Come and celebrate Camp Cloud Rim's 50th birthday I The Utah Girl Scout Council invites you to part1c1pate 1n celebration activities from 1 to 6 p.m (no charge) and/or the special birthday barbeque dinner ($5 per person) following the day-long act1v1ties. Preregistration required for both events. Call 486-7145 for more 1nformat1on. 23 CANYON JAM 1987 1 00 to 6:00 p.m, Snowbird Pav1l1on. Sponsored by Phil Terry and the Salt Lake Jazz Society and Snowbird Arts and Entertainment. Free of charge. For more information ca/1521-6040 ext. 4080. 23 .BOOK SALE 1 to 6 p.m. in the Peruvian Room on Level 3 of the Snowbird Center. Co-sponsored by the Salt Lake County Library System. For more information call 521-6040 ext. 4080. 25 WICITOUR Tour of U of U, Health Sciences Center. 50 North Medical Dr. 11 30 a.m For cost and to reserve call Jo D1vver 364-1935 or Susan Sample 581 -5 715 28 WIN Ill LUNCHEON 28 STAR PARTY Agenda meeting to plan next year's agenda. $1 Oat Downtown Hilton. 11 30 am Call 350-2905 to reserve 8 00 p.m, in tne Peruvian Room on Level 3 of the Snowbird Center. See August 14 above for details 29.30 OKTOBERFEST CELEBRATION A self-esteem workshop in developing and nurturing our relationships with ourselves. This workshop will offer participants an opportunity to explore their own sense of worth and offer ideas and exercises for continual personal growth and development. 10 a.m to 2 p.m. At Phoenix Institute, 1800 South West Temple. Call 484-2882. Utah Symphony with Christopher Wilkins conducting and Peter Van de Graaff, baritone. See ad Page 14. August 7, Friday, 8 pm at Symphony Hall. August 8, Saturday, 7 p.m. at Deer Valley. August 9, Sunday, 4 p.m. at Snowbird. Daytime one-week series, 5 sessions, 2 hours per session, 10 am. to noon. At Phoenix Institute. 1800 South West Temple. Call 484-2882 to reserve. Starlite Summer Theatre presents Broadway musical version of this famous Civil War saga at Triad Center Amphitheatre, 8:30 p.m Call 575-7111 for ticket information and details. 7 30 a.m. Quality Inn Downtown. Time Management by Gayla Wood Call 322-0444 or 277-9237 to reserve. $5 1n advance, $7 at the door. 7 30 p.m., Snowbird Pavilion. One of the best Jazz concerts you'll see and hear this summer. No coolers, please 1 8:00 p.m., in the Peruvian Room on Level 3 of the Snowbird Center. See August 14 above for details. And membership party. 5:30 p.m. Salt Lake Airport Hilton. $15. For information call 487-6875 or 250-2905 to reserve. Garage sale to help the children at Kearns location, 5242 South 4820 West. Call 966-4251 En)Oy this annual German celebration traditionally with knockwurst. saurkraut. beer. music. dancing and more. Fun for the whole family. Continues weekends through October 11, on the Plaza Deck. For more 1nformat1on call 521-6040 ext.4080. SEPTEMBER 10.11.12 ART CLASSES Beginning, intermediate, advanced classes. Call Paul Forester for information at 572-2752. EIGHTH ANNUAL FAMILIES ALIVE CONFERENCE Enhancing Relationships, at Shepherd Union Building, Weber State College. Ogden. Sponsored by Department of Child and Family Studies and Div1s1on of Continuing Education. See ad and coupon on page 25. SYLVIA -theRcz's New ReveL: P..t10N evep_y DAY. -r:. CAN'+ +A\<e ./ ·,t f\LL ·,N. I'M w'CR.Rl€P .fHAt !. MF\'/ M\S S 50MetH·u•~ Cf. by Nicole Hollander DiD yov H~A~ tHAt "AiR foRc.e ONe• 1 HAS b~~N i'1pl.i-CA-teD ,'rv DRuCt -tRAff1cltJu? by Kare11 Shepherd and LynneArrn Tempest WOMEN IN THE MEDIA Editor's note: Although this is beginning to seem like a permanent column, it is not. It is merely the continuation of what we thought would be one quick story. What follows is a list of women who many say will go higher. That's the key. It is not a list of already prominent women. If a woman listed is already well-known, she is believed to be on the way to still higher plateaus. If you know a rising star, let us know. We will all do better as they achieve. Ask a woman in television who is likely to be a star in 10 years, and expect a look of utter disgust. In television, where stars are only as lasting as the last rating book, 10 years is a long time, longer than anyone cares to discuss. Those who have lasted, like Shelley Thomas, lasted, she explained to me, by living one year at a time. No one knows what will happen in 10 years. For one thing, the recent upheavals in the national networks have changed the goals of most serious television journalists. They no longer want to work at CBS, NBC, ABC - all now owned by large holding companies. Now, the goal is to reach a high place in a strong regional market. One of the names that came up again and again was Linda Beth Hume. In April, when we began this column; Hume was at KUTV. Now she is in Seattle. Just as KUTV was losing Hume, however, they lured Maria Smith from KUED. Smith is now head of all programming at KUTV except the news, and is the first woman to serve on the Board of Directors of the Utah Broadcaster's Association. She is expected to go far. Already well-known but certain to gain even more prominence is Diane Orr, a documentary filmmaker who also works for KUTV and is a member of its board of directors. At KSL several women are on the rise. Janice Evans has just fled CBS to become an executive producer at the news and the only woman in this market to be in news management. Insiders expect both Evans and Margaret Smoot, the director of public affairs, to have increasing influence at KSL or to go and have an equal amount of influence elsewhere. Working Treatment you can trust. There are no guarantees in treating alcoholism and drug abuse. At Brightway at Sr. George, we're so c,1ntident in our treatment rm· gram, we're hacking it with a h\'eyear pledge. It's simple-if a persun requires readmission within ti,·e years nf initial treatment, Rrightway \\'ill treat rhat persun again. Free. F,1unded b,· the Utah Ab1l~,1lism F,1unclati,1n, an , irgani:ati, ll1 ,,·ith 3':i ,·e;1r~, it ,ucce" in treatinl.! ab1h,1li~m ancl clrug abu,e, Rrightway is non-profit. Our ohjecti,·e is long-term reC<l\"ery ntfered for thousands of dollars less than other programs . closely with Smoot is a frequent contributor to network and past KUER reporter, Maggie St. Clair. St. Clair and her counterpart at KUTV, Cindy Kindred, are spearheading a bold new adventure for commercial television. They are attempting to tie programming to issues that are of public service. If they succeed, the quality of commercial televsion should increase along with their value to the stations. The Ogden Standard Examiner is watching Susan Ipaktchian, now education reporter and weekend assistant to the city editor. The Ogden Standard has the distinction of being the only large Utah newspaper with women in upper management (Flora Ogan being managing editor). In Salt Lake City, according to DeAnn Evans who was once managing editor of the Deseret News, the system is not likely to let women into the top editing positions in the next 10 years. There are women who will gain prominence, however, here or elsewhere. At the DeseretNews, Elaine Jarvik and Susan Lyman are frequently mentioned. Linda Sillitoe left the Deseret News to write a book about Mark Hoffman. Both she and her book are likely to become famous for more than 15 minutes. At the Salt Lake Tribune, A, an employer, \'l1u'll ht: as,;urecl that Rrightway patient, an: recei,·ing the hcst care possible at the lu,,·e,t price. And ,huuld a rclapst: llCCur. patienr, art: treated at n,, additi, mal c,"t t,, ,·,,u. BRIGHlWAY Brightway ... Treatment You Can Trust Next month: women in health care and social services. ,, lJ m (/) ci0 Set in beautiful St. George, Rrightway\ new facility is designed expressly for the treatment ,if alcohol and drug abuse. Assurance Diane Coles leads the team that decides which editorials will be written. This is an unheard of spot for a woman in the middle of some of the most male journalism in the nation. The other name to emerge from the many fine women journalists at the Tribune is Dawn Tracy. Tracy is the reporter who tracked the Salamander Papers to a basement in Texas. Now that's a scoop. The media world also includes graphic artists. Kay Spatafore is the hot new designer coming into her own. She is quickly rising to the challenge of Julia LaPine and Tracy O'Very who have been winning top national awards for several years now. All three of them will leave their mark, though most of the world will never know it. Their work is created to delight and amaze even though most of those who appreciate it never know the names of the artists. Finally, two artists that are network picks. Cathy Patillo is a new freelancer whose work is too wonderful not to become famous, as is that of Jutta Gellerson, an artist whose style offers special insights into ordinary •PRESCHOOL • FULL DAY CARE • CERTIFIED KINDERGARTEN SERVING THE SALT LAKE VALLEY FOR OVER 10 YEARS * Summer Programs * Nutritious Meals * Licensed Nurse Available * Before & After School Care * Quality Academic Curriculum * Dance, Swimming, Gymnastics WE CARE: * Transportation Available * Indoor Gymnasiums * Computer Learning Come In Anytime and Meet Our Friendly, Experienced Staff! AT ST. GEORGE 115 West 14 70 South, St. George, Utah 486-0965 653 SIMPSON AVE. (2240 S.) JUST OFF 1-80 AT 7TH EAST AUGUST 1987/NETWORK 33 by Lynne Ann Tempest BARBARA LEVY, a real estate MARGOT C. KADESCH was JAN MOONEY recently returned agent with Commerce Properties, Inc., recently appointed dean of the Center to KTVX as account executive after a was recently awarded the for Professional Development at four year absence. Mooney joined Certified-Commercial Investment Westminster College. In her new KTVX in 1978 as sales service assistant Member (CCIM) designation by the position, Kadesch will coordinate a.I\d for both the local and national sales Commercial Investment Real Estate develop the continuing education, departments, and was later promoted Council of the Realtors National certificate and professional to account executive. In 1983, Mooney Marketing Institute. She is the first development programs for the center. left KTVX and spent three years as woman in Utah to receive the • Since 1983, Kadesch has served as the senior account executive for KLCY designation which is held by only 40 program developer for the center, Radio in Salt Lake. Prior to her other Utah agents. Levy has been with formerly called the School of employment at KTVX, Mooney spent Commerce Properties since 1982. She Professional Studies. She joined two years at Blair Television in Los specializes in office leasing/sales and Westminster College in 1976 as an Angeles, California. She is a member of land sales. Levy is a member of instructor of English as a Second Utah Ad Federation and has served on Leadership Utah and the steering Language. She also developed the Board of Directors for the Rape committee for the Women in Busin~ss Westminster's International Student Crisis Center for five years. Committee of the Salt Lake Area program and was the international Governor Norman H. Bangerter Chamber of Commerce. She was also student advisor and recruiter from recently appointed CLEO NE ECCLES, recently appointed chair of the Salt 1978 to 1983. Prior to joining the a community volunteer worker, to the Lake Sister Cities Program which Westminster staff, Kadesch was the University of Utah Institutional fosters understanding between Salt director of the Guadalupe Center VIP Council. Eccles replaces Nan Conant. Lake City and four international cities. Program, an adult English as a Second He also appointed JACKIE LAUREN TALGO-SPEARE was Language program. She holds a MARCHANT to the So:ithern Utah recently promoted to marketing bachelor of arts degree in English State College Institutional Council. director at Snowbird Ski and Summer literature and a master's in Linguistics Marchant replaces Joanna Adamson. Resort. Previously the from the Universtiy of Utah. RUTH TEMPEST was appointed to • communications director at Snowbird, ROBYN BLUMNER, past director the Snow College Institutional Council, Talgo-Speare's new·responsibilities of Labor Relations for the Staten Island replacing Lucille Taylor. will be to assist in directing new Rapid Transit Operating Authority, was The Utah Girl Scout Council marketing programs, act as liaison recently appointed executive director recently hired VICKI PATTERSON between staff and management, and of the Utah chapter of the American as director of business services, assist in ad placement and public Civil Liberties Union. Blumner JOHANNA BLISS as accountant, relations. Talgo-Speare has also succeeds Shirley Peddler who joined REBECCA CHAVEZ-HOUCK as worked as a Snowbird ski hostess, the Louisiana ACLU affiliate as public relations manager, and JULIE corporate ticket sales coordinator, and director. Peddler, who directed the OMER as office assistant. Prior to this as the public relations director/ events Utah chapter since 1974, was the first position, Patterson was head of the coordinator of the Wasatch Nordic full-time ACLU executive director in Administrative Office, Education Race Association. A native of New Utah. Blumner, a New York native, is a Department at Mountain West York, she graduated from the 1985 graduate of the New York Business College. Before joining Girl University of Utah in 1981 with a University School of Law. Scouts, Bliss worked as a consultant bachelor of arts degree in French and EVAC. UGARKOVICH was for Texasgulf Potash Employees Credit English. recently appointed deputy director of Union in Moab and as an accountant MICHELLE CUATIO recently the Contracting and Manufacturing and office manager for Minerals West, joined Real Estate Mortgage Services, Directorate, Ogden Air Logistics Inc. Chavex-Houck was most recently Inc., as senior loan officer. She will be Center, Hill Air Force Base. In her new the public relations assistant for the responsible for originating, processing, • position, Ugarkovich oversees Utah Public Employees Association and closing home mortgage loans for contracts for supplies and services (UPEA). Prior to working for the the Union Park office of Real Estate with annual acquisition expenditures UPEA, she was reporter/photoMortgage Services, an affiliate of Gump in excess of $2.1 billion. She is also . grapher for the Uinta County Heral.d & Ayers Real Estate. Cuatto was responsible for approximately 600 in Evanston, Wyoming. Omer is a previously an underwriter and employees. Ugarkovich began her recent graduate of Mountain West corporate assistant secretary for Home career with the government in 1956 as a Business College. Savings and Loan. clerk typist in Okinawa. a JOAN L. BURNSIDE Ph.D., was recently appointed manager of the Human Resources Training and Development Department at the Hercules Aerospace Bacchus Works. Burnside began her career with Hercules in 1985 as career development coordinator. She was most recently supervisor of training. She has a bachelor of science degree in human relations from Westminster College, a master's in education and a Ph.D. in organizational behavior from Brigham Young University. The Salt Lake Convention and Visitors Bureau recently·appointed RITA QUINN to director of marketing, LEAH DOOR to director of conventions, PAT HOLMES to convention services manager, and •SALLY TILSON O'NEILL to director of conventions. Quinn, past director of conventions, will be responsible for overseeing the marketing activities of the Bureau's convention and tourism departments. Her six years of industry experience include sales positions held at the Portland and San Diego Bureaus. Door will be responsible for convention solicitation within the fields of education, religion, real estate, communication, and the arts. 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In the last few years, factors like downsizing and the increase in available models have brought many changes to the automotive industry. These changes have complicated the buying process, especially when it comes to model size. The following quiz from Car & Truck Buying Made Easier is based on the features you want in a car and can help you identify the right size vehicle for your family, business or personal requirements. Rate the statements below from one to five, according to your level of agreement or disagreement. When you have finished, add all your scores together in the Total Score box. Compare your total score with the range of scores listed below. It will give you a good indication of the car size(s) that you should consider. 1. . . Indicates no agreement with the statement 2. .. Indicates little agreement with the statement 3 . .. Indicates some agreement with the statement 4 . .. Indicates much agreement with the statement 5. . . Indicates total agreement with the statement _ _ 2. I frequently need towing power. _ _ 3. Gasoline prices have no effect on the size of car I buy. _ _ 4. I need a car that is very quiet at highway speeds. _ _ 5. In my car, a smooth ride is very important. _ _ 6. I use my car to entertain. _ _ 7. I drive many more highway miles than city miles. _ _ 8. My family needs a car with a lot of room. _ _ 9. I need to carry large packages in my trunk. _ _ 10. The cost of maintenance is not important to my car buying decision. _ _ 11. I want the highest level of luxury in my car. _ _ 12. I don't feel comfortable in a car with a small interior. _ _ 13. I frequently travel with more than four passengers. _ _ 14. I would rather have a car with a large interior than one which has top fuel economy. _ _ 15. Passing power and towing ability are more important to me than great fuel economy. _ _ 16. A large rear seat is more important to me than ease of parking. _ _ 17. Six-passenger room is very important to me. _ _ 18. Eight-cylinder performance is more important to me than low driving costs. _ _ 19. I want room to stretch out in the car that I drive. _ _ 20. The level of luxury and room in my car has to make me look very successful. _ _ 21. I feel more comfortable in a car that weighs a lot. _ _ 22. My new car will be the primary family car, not a second car. _ _ 23. Room and luxury are more important to me than the price I pay for my new car. _ _ 24. Having many options is more important to me than paying the lowest price. _ _ 25. Excellent power and performance are very important to me. 25-40 Subcompact 35-65 Compact 60-85 Mid-Size Q. In what ways does a compact car differ from a subcompact car? A. A compact car usually has more passenger room and vehicle features than a subcompact. The compact generally has four to five passenger seating. Depending on the manufacturer, you can find both front-wheel and rear-wheel drive. Available engines usually include four-cylinder and six-cylinder models ...Q.-What are some of the advantages of purchasing a midsize car? _ _ 1. I want my car to have the longest list of available options. ' A. The subcompact is a small, light vehicle designed for economical operation. Generally, it is a fourpassenger car. Many have frontwheel drive, and a four-cylinder engine is generally standard. A. Mid-size cars generally combine reasonable economy with a smooth, quiet ride for efficient city and highway use. The mid-size offers good front and rear seat room and if properly equipped can be used for towing small boats and other light loads. Q. What are the advantages of purchasing a full-size car? A. A full-size car provides the new- car buyer with more room, comfort and luxury than a mid-size car. The fullsize generally offers a large sixcylinder or an eight-cylinder engine for towing, passing and performance. Also, almost any option is available on the full-size car. A. Small specialty cars include sports . models and performance sports cars. 1 These cars were designed with style and/or performance as prime considerations. Because of their smaller size and maneuverability, these cars can meet the needs of the driving enthusiast while still remaining suitable for the commuter. Q. What is a mini-van? How does it differ from a full-size van? A. The mini-van is a newer vehicle size which combines a large interior with a relatively short vehicle length. The mini-van can be as short as a compact car while offering seating for up to eight passengers and easy parking either on the street or in a standard garage. Most mini-vans are front-wheel drive wbicb restricts their towing ability. In comparison, the full-size van is much larger with more interior room for passengers and cargo. Most full-size vans have rear-wheel drive and can carry or tow heavy loads. Next In The Series: Choosing The Drivetrain. Car & Truck Buying Made Easier is a reference guide designed to take you through all the steps of the car or light truck buying process. It is an objective book which will help ~u make an informed choice about any vehicle, without regard '.)(;:,.: : ,~ to who makes it -i~ or who sells it. 80-100 Full-Size AUGUST 1987/NETWORK 35 AWINNING TRADITION A Winning Traditio n begins with aiming high, _lots of practice and team work. We can help you look your best with the latest in back to school fashions and funwear! August 1 - 8 Back to School Sale August ·1 Fashion Shows 1:00 and 3:00 p.m. -A ugust 8 ·- 9 Music on the Mall l:00 and 3:00 p.m. (Center Court) August 19 - 23 A Klass Act (Sears Court) Go Team! Wall Avenue and Riverdale Road, Ogden Mall Hours: Monday , Friday 10 a.m. , 9 p.m. • Saturday 10 a.m. , 6 p.m. • Sunday noon , 5 p.m.